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Good morning Ladies. I tested this morning at home. Got a BFN. Am upset and depressed right now. I can't stop crying. I don't think I'm meant to be a mother.

stella2013: Depression about becoming a mother is the worst thing to do.... It will happen in Gods. Just relax, dont stress about what days i need to be with my hubby to create a baby. think back to your honeymoon and remember the fun you had. When you have fun and dont worry then it happens.... Keep the faith you will one day be a mommy. Best of luck to you girl.

stella2013: Depression about becoming a mother is the worst thing to do.... It will happen in Gods. Just relax, dont stress about what days i need to be with my hubby to create a baby. think back to your honeymoon and remember the fun you had. When you have fun and dont worry then it happens.... Keep the faith you will one day be a mommy. Best of luck to you girl.

Keidra : do you have to wait before you try again? As I'm nearly 38 and my egg reserve is on the decline I dont really have tome to wait but hey ho. Stella2013: I know how you feel. Each month comes more disappointment and everyone says relax it will happen but when we go through the same thing each month it's hard to believe. I felt really down and depressed this month but I've picked myself up now and I'll try and have positive thoughts because I will be a mummy no matter what it takes.

It has been months since I’ve commented on here but I do keep up on all of the posts. Welcome to all of the new ladies! It’s so good to see this site continue to grow. Jessica1986 – Congrats on the pregnancy and twins. Argomez – Congratulations! I am so happy for you! Bobbi2006 – I received a friend request from someone I don’t know. I a__sume it is you, but if you could send me a message on FB so I know for sure I will be more than happy to add you to the fb forum site. Since there are many new faces on this site a little recap on me. My dh and I started ttc over two years ago. A year after trying we got pregnant, but I miscarried at 5 weeks. After that my OB sent me to an RE where I got put on clomid because I was not ovulating well. On my 3rd round I got pregnant again but miscarried at 9 weeks. I was devastated and wanted to give up, but with the help of my RE, DH and of course the ladies on this site and the fb forum I pushed on. We did another 3 rounds of clomid with no success and were preparing to move to injections and iui when we tried one last cycle on clomid but this time I asked if we could added metformin this cycle. My sister had issues ttc and if she got pregnant med free or just on clomid she would miscarry, but when on clomid and metformin together she could carry to term. My RE said I have different issues that she did, but that it couldn’t hurt to try it, so we did. Amazingly I got pregnant that cycle and will be 16 weeks tomorrow. Everything is going great this time around, and baby will be here in July. Please don’t give up hope. It can happen – you just need to keep the faith! =)

Hello desert flower it's so lovely to hear your story and its so encouraging hearing all the success stories when you feel despair that its never going to happen to you. I couldn't find you this time on Facebook but I did message you yesterday so I have resent it today.

Hi Ladies, To Ttcasimonsbaby and bobbi2009, thank you both very much for your kind words. I really was very upset and have resigned myself to another round of clomid. I'm due to meet my RE tomorrow for b/w to check for pregnancy (we all know what results I'll get) but this appointment was scheduled 2 weeks ago. Once the results are known, we'll decide on the next step. I have been getting cramps like you wouldn't believe, so I think this time AF will come with a vengance. I wonder if Clomid makes AF come later in the cycle??? My schedule is about 28-30 days and today is day 30 (12 DPO) and still no signs of my dear AF. ******Keep the faith Ladies. The stork will visit each of us soon. Baby dust to all ********

Argomez- haven't been on here for almost a year and I've just seen your news! I'm so happy for you, you deserve this so much. I was on this site over a year ago and you were the greatest source of strength,comfort and encouragement to us all :) My twin girls, Olivia and Arabella, are almost one now, on valentines day, there is not a day that pa__ses when I don't realize how lucky and grateful I am. I'm sooooooooo happy for you :) And to all the other ladies on here, congratulations to those who are also pregnant and to those who are still waiting, don't loose faith - it will happen xxx

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x

hi all.. would just like to share my sucsess story with you all, to let you know that you will get there eventually.. i have been with my dh since 2007, i was 23 and he was 36 with 3 older children oldest 16 youngest 12.. i knew he was the one from the start so starting a family was on my mind from day one, didnt really stress over it at first but after 3 and a half years of nothing it was time to visit the doctor!!! i was refered to the hospital where they tested my dh he was fine, then i had all the bloods and the dye test in my tubes all came back fine, it took a year of testing and sept 2011 my final hosp apt i was told that we just had unexplained infertility and as my dh had 3 children we were not intilted to any more help so the nurse gave me 6 months of clomid 50mg and wished me good luck!! i knew that they wouldnt work at that dose as i had tried them before as friends had given me there left over tablets from when they had got caught first time. (i know that it was naughty) so sept my period came as normal i took 50mg day 2 of my cycle and as usual the next month up appeared mother nature!! oct came and i just didnt have the heart to take them... but nov came and i was just fed up and desperate so i thought what the hell and this month i had taken 150mg a day, from day 2 again, this month i felt myself ovulate from my left side, i had a good feeling, as i was always a 5 week cycle my period was due jan 1st 2011, nothing by this date i didnt think anything of it as it was nothing unusual a week and a half later i told my dh still no period and he was like well this has happened so many times me being late and then nothing, then the following thurs i started to bleed!! gutted as i was i just gave up trying, i said that was it im just concentrating on hitting the gym, so me and my sis hit the gym and dieting, 2 weeks later i was still bleeding lightly and couldnt understand why i wasnt losing weight, so my sis said just do a test, so the next day i did one and shock it was positive!!!! my dh didnt belive me untill the next day when i did 2 more clear blue digital ones this time! worried about the bleed we were sent for an emergency scan, and there was my tiny baby 7weeks+6 i couldnt beleive it, didnt explain the bleeding they just said they could see blood in my utrus, that night i went home and has a really heavy bleed, but luckily everything was ok! pregnancy was really well apart from little one lived on my bladder, i didnt find out the s_x of my baby i waited so long i wanted my journey to end with the best suprise... i was induced at 37 weeks as my baby's growth had slown down but baby was healthy, 21st august 2012 my whole life changed my gorgeous little girl lilly-mae was born 5lb 6oz and every bit perfect!!! please girls dont give up i thought it would never happen and after 5 years i got my angel x