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Hi I am 19 years old, 5 months pregnant, just call me joy, though that\'s not my real name, but pls forgive me if i had to used that nick name joy, i hope you guys understand me. I am looking for a loving and caring family or some couples who wants to adopt a baby, and who would be very much willing to wait for 4 months more until the baby is born. Well i am not so sure if there would be a family or couples who would be able to adopt a baby from Philippines, since i am residing here in Philippines ( i was born and raised here in Philippines). This may be hard for a family to adopt a baby here in Philippines and it might be expensive for them to adopt a Filipino baby, But however, i am still hoping that there would be someone who would still be interested in adopting a baby from my country. It was an unplanned pregnancy, it\'s not that i am not ready to have a baby, but in my situation right now? everything gets harder. I am living in Cebu, Philippines, . I don\'t even know what to do with this baby, i cannot work because of my situation, I don\'t even know where I\'m going,my family dont know it. I could not tell them about my situation too because i don\'t want them to get disappointed of what had happen to me. I don\'t want them to get worried of my situation. I came from a very poor family, my parents worked in barangay hall .actually im also adopted because my real parents leave when i was young, I could not seemed to find a good job since i don\'t have any college background or what we call a higher education. And in my age right now? it seems that all my hopes are gone when i found out that i was pregnant with my first boyfriend. I am not prone into having a relationship with an opposite s_x since i was trying to focus on helping my family I wasn\'t expected that i would stumble with this young man who pretend to be so nice and true to his intentions, i was so stupid to even allow myself to get physically involve. I am trying to contact him when i found out that i am pregnant, but i could not contact him anymore, i don\'t even know where he is right now, he took off my womanhood in me and run way from his responsibility. Now i had to stop my job, and i don\'t even know where should i stay. nobody knows that i am pregnant except the guy whom i get involved with. I am now in the situation where i don\'t where I\'m standing, I\'ve been thinking about abortion or to abort this baby but i am scared, i know it would be a great mistake. I wasn\'t dreaming to have a terrible life to to give this baby a terrible life in the future I was trying to find a family in the internet would would like to adopt a baby until i found this site, and thinking that i must give it a try. It\'s not that i would like to abandon this child it\'s just that i wanted this baby to have a good life in the future, to have parents that would be able to give this child a bright future and who would be able to love her and care for her, Well i dont know really know yet is this is a boy or a girl, since i could not even have a regular check up or go to an OB since i don\'t have money on pocket... Please if there would be someone who could help me, or if there would be someone who would be interested in adopting a baby, I need your help and cooperation guys, i need your advice and comfort and let myself feel that i am not alone. That there\'s someone out there who cares for me in spite of my situation I am loooking forward to hear from any of you guys who really wanted to adopt a baby. feel free to comment i really need it so badly :( joy

Hi I am 19 years old, 5 months pregnant, just call me joy, though that\'s not my real name, but pls forgive me if i had to used that nick name joy, i hope you guys understand me. I am looking for a loving and caring family or some couples who wants to adopt a baby, and who would be very much willing to wait for 4 months more until the baby is born. Well i am not so sure if there would be a family or couples who would be able to adopt a baby from Philippines, since i am residing here in Philippines ( i was born and raised here in Philippines). This may be hard for a family to adopt a baby here in Philippines and it might be expensive for them to adopt a Filipino baby, But however, i am still hoping that there would be someone who would still be interested in adopting a baby from my country. It was an unplanned pregnancy, it\'s not that i am not ready to have a baby, but in my situation right now? everything gets harder. I am living in Cebu, Philippines, . I don\'t even know what to do with this baby, i cannot work because of my situation, I don\'t even know where I\'m going,my family dont know it. I could not tell them about my situation too because i don\'t want them to get disappointed of what had happen to me. I don\'t want them to get worried of my situation. I came from a very poor family, my parents worked in barangay hall .actually im also adopted because my real parents leave when i was young, I could not seemed to find a good job since i don\'t have any college background or what we call a higher education. And in my age right now? it seems that all my hopes are gone when i found out that i was pregnant with my first boyfriend. I am not prone into having a relationship with an opposite s_x since i was trying to focus on helping my family I wasn\'t expected that i would stumble with this young man who pretend to be so nice and true to his intentions, i was so stupid to even allow myself to get physically involve. I am trying to contact him when i found out that i am pregnant, but i could not contact him anymore, i don\'t even know where he is right now, he took off my womanhood in me and run way from his responsibility. Now i had to stop my job, and i don\'t even know where should i stay. nobody knows that i am pregnant except the guy whom i get involved with. I am now in the situation where i don\'t where I\'m standing, I\'ve been thinking about abortion or to abort this baby but i am scared, i know it would be a great mistake. I wasn\'t dreaming to have a terrible life to to give this baby a terrible life in the future I was trying to find a family in the internet would would like to adopt a baby until i found this site, and thinking that i must give it a try. It\'s not that i would like to abandon this child it\'s just that i wanted this baby to have a good life in the future, to have parents that would be able to give this child a bright future and who would be able to love her and care for her, Well i dont know really know yet is this is a boy or a girl, since i could not even have a regular check up or go to an OB since i don\'t have money on pocket... Please if there would be someone who could help me, or if there would be someone who would be interested in adopting a baby, I need your help and cooperation guys, i need your advice and comfort and let myself feel that i am not alone. That there\'s someone out there who cares for me in spite of my situation I am loooking forward to hear from any of you guys who really wanted to adopt a baby. feel free to comment i really need it so badly :( joy