15 Baby

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Kristina - January 2

Hey Nat, I got pregnant at 18, had my baby 2 months ago at 19. I wouldn't take her back for the world...BUT I think 15 is too young. I know you feel you really want a baby, and they are really great...but they are also ALOT of work. You need to finish highschool, get a job..party it up! You are so young...Enjoy your youth while you can! =)

 

hopeful - January 3

I understand where you're coming from, but trust me, wait. I am 20 years old, and married for 3 months. My hubby and I are trying to start a family early, only because he is 28, and he doesn't want to be 40 when our first is born. If I married a man closer to my age (which I'm glad I didn't, becuase I love my hubby) I would prob wait. Even though I have wanted a baby since I was one myself, it would be in yours and your future childs best interest to wiat until you're out of school, probably out of college and married. A baby needs stability, and at 15, you don't have that. I'm very young to start a family and I'm 5 years older than you, please wait, its not worth wasting your childhood.

 

sho - January 3

hey im 17 and im 7months prg, i really think u should find a good boyfriend first b4 thinking about getting preg and a good job so you have the money 2 support the baby, im a chef and have been with the dad of my baby since i was 12. plzzzzzz get into a good relationship first then go for it. x

 

lea-anneuk2k5 - January 31

Heya im 15 and i have a baby! He is 2 months old now and you really don't need a baby in your life TRUST ME! If i could turn back time i would of taken more precautions and had my life! Don't get me wrong i love Jack to peices and i wouldn't change him for anything.But it is sooo hard you don't understand.When all your mates are out having a good time and you have to stay in,bored you won't be happy! I'm allways tierd,fustrated and bored.Live your life first then have as many kids as you like! Please trust me on this one,you've plenty of time for kids! Lv xx lea-anne xx

 

frm nat to lea-anne - February 4

congrats on ur baby- jack, i bet hes adorable and hard work lol, i gt a b/f bin off out 4 a while nw bt im nt plannin on having a baby just yet! I think i'm going to wait a few years, all the best with urs i'm sure you will be a great mum, do u have msn? if u do n wna chat reply to me on here, lv nat xxx

 

kay96 - July 26

First of all, In my own opinion, whoever posted with the name "s", you are way too narrow-minded! I can see you as the type who grew up with a perfect little home, and went to church every sunday. Well guess what, not everybody has a perfect family or life! I understand where nat was coming from when she said she wanted something of her own to love. But I also don't agree that having a baby at 15 is a good idea. Nat, I'm glad that you decided not to get pregnant at 15! Wait until your in a stable relationship! Oh and second of all, "s", I kind of thought that it was completely unecessary to bring up "the lord" or whatever in here. Not all people believe in god, and I don't think religion needs to be brought into these kinds of discussions.

 

flower.momma - July 26

Get a puppy or kitten. Babies can wait!

 

NURSEJ - July 28

i do agree with "s" when she says that the grandparents should not be stuck raising the daughters baby b/c she thought she was ready for a baby and really was not. i see nothing wrong with bringing "the lord" into this conversation, if you don't believe in god then her post did not apply to you. i believe in the lord and in deed he has helped me through many things hard times. abortion may not be for everyone, but i had one when i was 16 y/o b/c i knew i was not ready and had made a mistake. i also got on the pill right after and was on it until i was 22 years old. never got pregnant until i wanted to.

 

EliseMichelle - August 3

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LiTTlePumpKin - September 23

GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT at 15 what guy do you think it gonna give up his high school years to be a dad? Give up partying....football.....girls....I dont think so. Especially if you dont even have a boyfriend right now. Listen every teenager wants a baby. They want to feel that unconditional love that they would get from a baby. But you need to learn to Love yourself....sounds dumb I know. But its true, please wait.

 

renexoxcathlene - October 3

Hey Nat! Please e-mail me at renexoxcathlene@hotmail.com!

 

kittandkaboodle - October 16

Get a puppy if you want something of your own that you can love. If it survives the next three years then have a baby. Don't force an innocent child to a lifetime of problems because you're so selfish.

 

big belly - October 27

DONT DO IT. At 15 i didnt want to have a baby because i got a puppy for my 14th b-day. and i had to bathe him let him out feed him and it was enough for me. its nice to have someone need you so much. but a baby is ssssoooooo much more then the fun stuff. get a puppy. 8 years later my (not so puppy any more) still loves me just the same.

 

sonia989 - October 31

Better yet, get a cute bunny with floppy ears. They stay like babies forever- like puppies that never grow up. Buns are the best! Just don't forget to feed it, cause they can die if they don't eat for even 1 day.

 

lashonda - November 1

I am not that much older than you i am 20 yrs old with a 3 year old daughter. I got pre when i was 16 and had her when i was 17. I did not plan to get pregnant it was an accident. Even now I am maried an my husband (also my child's father)is in the military and it is still hard to raise a child. When I got pregnant It was the end of my junior year and the begining of my senior year and I missed everything my senior year but graduation. I love to go to the club but I could not go there my husband missed many of his footb___s games and wrestling matches because he had to go to work at McDonalds to buy our child diapers and pampers. Our parents halped us when really needed it but at the same time they wanted us to know that we have to take care of our child because we laid down to make the baby. but it was really hard. there is a time in all teenage girls life where they feel as if they are missing something but u can get over it so please do not try to make a baby at least until you are out of school. Also if you haven't had s_x before p;ease try to hold on th your virginity because once its gone there is no way to get it back, and when you meet that special person you would have wished that u have, also if you are having s_x please use condoms because these days men only care about themselves and they will not even tell you that they have an std. live you teenage life to the fullest because once you give it up there is no going back. P.S. if you do not take my advice and still want to have a baby anyway please make sure you know that person because even if the person wants the baby while u are trying to make once the baby comes the father will be not be found and then it gets even harder than i had it because you will be a single mother.

 

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