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I was 18 when I got married. All I wanted as a child was a baby. I was blind to any thing else. I am now 21 and have a 22 mo. old son. I know how you feel about wanting a child. I really really wish that I would have waited. I didn't think I wanted to go to college. I used to pray that God would just let me get married and have atleast one child before I died. I was in such a rush because I thought armagedin was coming. I see now that it was a childish fear. time goes by so quickly before you know it you are going to wish that you had only waited because friends are inviting you to the bar or out to dinner or on trips. You can still do these things just not as carelessly as you would have. My husband gets very jelous at our son because he has the majority of my attention. I think that it we would have waited a little while that he would have been more secure because we would have been together longer alone. We started dating when I was 16. We were married 1 yr before I found out i was pregnant. We hadn't spent enough time together as husband and wife before we dove into being parents. I hope you think reallllly hard about what your going to give up. I really do wish you the best of luck Oh and about the "baby making fertilizer" that is normal for everyone. What goes up must come down. .

Hi! You sound like me 7 1/2 months ago. I am 18 aswell about to turn 19. I would see a baby and my face would lite up everything id tell my husband GOD I WANT A BABY. He ALWAYS told me that if god wants to give us a child he will bless us with it when he wants us to be blessed. To me that wasnt the answer iw anted. I finally gave up. My mom used to tell me the one moment you dont think you are going to get pregnant you do. Dont try to get pregnat, im serious, dont have s_x to get pregnant, have s_x to have s_x. If you think about it and stress about it for some reason it doesnt happen. I stopped worrying about it and turned up i was pregnant and didnt even know it. My husband saw that i was. Best of luck to you!

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I got married at 19 we were both 19, and I also really want to have a baby, we have been married now for 15 months, but my husband doesn't want a baby yet. He has a really good job, and I am still a college student. He wants us to be making more money and to buy our own house, I have to say I am starting to agree with him. I was raised better than to live off of the government. But anyways as far as your questions, you are at a prime age to get pregnant, however having a miscarriage can have something to do with it. And if the s____n seems to be leaking out a suggestion would be to raise your bottom on a pillow and lay still after s_x for a few minute probably about 5-10 to give the sperm enough time to swim. And remember every time a man ejacutates, hundreds of thousands of sperm are released and start making their way. Just give it time.