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unfortunately it's not an opinion just fact .
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Are you trying to say that if you have children in your 30's it is fact they won't have grandparents? lol
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Hows this for a compromise... lets agree that children shouldn't have babies, nor should people past their prime.. that leaves every age from 21 to 34 to get pregnant.. can we agree that this is a good age range.( the 34 part is just taking into account the advanced maternal age risk factors.. I don't seriously think 35 is past prime.. just trying to find a happy middle) I think these children need to realize no one is saying they have to wait until 30 to grow their family... but at least wait until you are an adult! A role model! Someone your kids can look up to and try to be like! Heck, at least be able to VOTE for crying out loud! Wait until you're done with school. Wait until you are financially stable.. not RICH, just be stable!One thing you need to keep in mind is all us
"older" folks ( anyone over 21) have BEEN your age! We KNOW how you think! We KNOW how life progresses, and how you will learn and grow in the next few years... so we have EARNED out right to have these opinions.. we KNOW what we are talking about! You young girls just THINK you know what is going on.. we were all there too, we know that. BE SMART, take advice from people who have BEEN THERE. We know better then you do what the future holds. We have already lived it.
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yes agreed keep in mind though if you wait to be stable you may never have children , usually one learns the weaknesses of inflation don't provide for family regardless how much is saved . So don't depend on status as a justification . The definition between grandparent and parent provides that life experience , it just depends which side you are looking in from .
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....in laymans terms that simply means that while government gives incentive in the form of tax breaks and child tax benefits because population increase is very valuable especially with the average age rising , banks and business don't give a c___p and try taking that from families too . When you think you have saved enough for your childs education inflation will have eaten up most or all of your interest . so don't rely too heavily on finances as stability . Just keep standing there demanding a raise every year to try keeping up and enjoy your children .
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"Financially stable" is not a hard status to aquire. You don't need a savings account full of money.. you just need to ( IMHO) be able to survive in your home with just one income. That way mom( or dad) can stay home and raise your child. If you can pay all your bills, buy diapers, clothes, and formula( if you need it) then in my opinion you are financially stable... It may not be the BEST situation ( college is expensive, and parents should help some... ) but it is enough to have a stable home-life. That isn't asking for much. If you are one of those families that needs 2 working parents, then be able to afford good child care ( not free grandparents.. the grandparents should be paid for their time as well).
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