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I'm 3mos pregnant and its seems my fiance is not caring about my feelings I have been very emotional but unable to help myself is anyone else feeling like this?
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You are on of us now! It could be him, or it could be you, but most likely it is both. You are probably overly senative and he doesn't have a clue. Have him come to appointments and read about how your hormones are going up and down. Talk about the concerns you both have together. Keep that communication open. The worst thing that can happen is either of you being resentful. Try to take a few hours a week for you to enjoy one another (no baby,house,work talk). You are going to do great. Tell yourself that when you are feeling your most low. Your confidence and emotion will even out eventually. Don't worry...during pregnancy no women feels like she can control herself or anything else.
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Thanks so much for the response I really appreciate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It's pretty normal to be more sensitive when you're pregnant. During my first pregnancy I wanted my husband to practically read my mind, and then I'd get mad at him for a__suming he knew what I wanted....It's a lot like having pms for months on end. I managed better during my second pregnancy by just keeping quiet when I was angry about something. Usually my anger would pa__s in a little while, and then I'd end up feeling foolish about whatever it was. If I was still upset the next day, I'd go ahead and tell my husband what he was doing that was p__sing me off...because by then it had to come out.
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I still take certain things a bit personally at this point (I'm 25 weeks along) nearly into the third trimester now, but nothing like how I was with my boyfriend in the first trimester. I've never screamed & cried so much or so hard in my life! It was a little scary. I could almost watch myself doing this outside myself, & I'd be like "Who is this person? What's her deal?" Everything my boyfriend would do would not be good enough. And to make the situation even more interesting, my raging hormones were rubbing off on him. So he was nearly as roller-coaster-emotional as I was. Thanks goodness this has all simmered down a LOT. Good luck with your situation.
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thank you so much guys for all your support and stories I don't feel alone thanks again
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