Having Trouble Man Advice
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I'm going to try and make this short. My bf and I were together for 2 years and we ended up splitting becuz he found another woman (cheated too). We remained talking and then a little down the road..he broke up with that girl. Him and I continued having s_xual relations. I ended up getting pregnant. When I got pregnant...him and I started dating again and we now live together. We have a beautiful baby girl. I sometimes get emotional because I question whether hes only with me because of the baby. He says "no"....he says he loves us both and wants to be with us. I still dont trust him 100%....and feel sometimes that hes only with me because of the baby? What do you think? Is it possible that I'm overreacting? He didn't want anything to do with me before the baby....
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I don't blame you for feeling insecure. He broke your trust when you were together for two years and left you for another woman. That alone is hard to forget. Not only that but he continued to talk you while he was with her. I don't think you would be in anyway overreacting and I think I would feel the same way. You don't have a secure foundation of trust. Relationships that last are built on honesty and trust. In your mind, you shouldn't have to feel he's only in it for the baby. Because if he felt that way, he wouldn't lie to you and stay with you. Once again, with no trust little issues like this will come up. It sounds like both of you need some help, maybe talk to a counselor about it first alone and then bring him.
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You have every right to feel the way that you do..its so hard to tell with guys..one way you might be able to tell is doing stuff otgether and getting a babysitter...how does he treat you when you are out and does he ever just want to have time with you...trust takes a long time to give back...dont give it back until you fel like your ready...cause they will just take advantage of it again.
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