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Hello, i am a concerned husband. my wife is about 8 weeks pregnant, and we just went to our first doctors visit last week. My problem is, she has stopped showing affection towards me. She was always the more affectionate of us, and now all of a sudden it seems to have stopped. it's like she has no interest in touching me even. We are facing a couple of problems that are about to be resolved; finances (because we had to take time off work) and an overbearing mooch room mate (Who has now been kicked out and we are preparing to move). I am wondering is this loss of affection a normal part of pregnancy, and if so will it go away, could it be the doctor, and in part her own sudden realization of how real it is (I feel she may feel that some of her youth is being stolen with this and she blames me. Whenever we talk about it she will say "It's your fault this is happening" and when asked about the fault she replies she is happy but it wouldn't be so without me), is it that she blames me, and if so will she come to terms and become affectionate again, or could it just be her stress over these problems, and maybe all of the previous in one? Is it normal, or do i need to look into something?
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