Need Some Advice From A Father ASAP
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I have a question for men in general. Say you start dating someone new and things are going good and you get intimately involved. Your Ex Girlfriend calls you to tell you that she is pregnant ( 5months). You cut off your relationship with new GF. Then new Gf finds out she is pregnant. How does new girlfriend tell you without making the stresses of being an almost new father worse? Keep in mind he doesn't have any children as of yet. Looking for a way to tell him with the least amount of stress as possible. He is a great man just in a bad situation. Please any comments are welcome
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edieye. all you can do is be totally honest! just tell him that its up to him what he wants to do, and that your not trying to trap him and understand how dificult it would be for him, but you think he deserves to know.
good luck let us know how you go. i was in similar situation except my bf didnt go back to his ex, and i miscarried.
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Thankyou, I would be totally honest and tell him, I was just hoping for a easy way to get into the conversation without scaring him half to death. I care about him a lot and want this to be easy on him and me of course. Thankyou for your imput
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glad to know you are going to be honest! are you able to call him? maybe call him and suggest meeting for a coffee etc on neutral ground and say you really need to talk, and then just tell him how you dont want to make anything difficult on him but u felt he should know and tell him he can decide wat he wants to do that you wont pressure him. good luck
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