Wanting A Male Point Of View
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Me and my boyfriend found out were pregnant on Friday, we have been trying, but i think it came as a really big shock to him. I've tried talking to him, btu he just keeps on ignoring the questions i ask, i'm not hassling him or anything, but even when i say things like 'gosh my bb's are sore today' he just walks away. Do you think his regretting this? I don't mean to sound selfish, but i feel like i'm going through this all on my own now, and i just wish i knew what to say to get him to tell me how he honestly feels! Can anyone help me? Thank you xxx
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I feel bad for you sweetie, I am sorry that your boyfriend is being insensitive and distant,especially when YOU are the one who is going to be going through the physical changes and hormonal imbalances. He sure picked a time to get all stupid on you, didn't he? You should be honest with him and ask him straight out "Are you regretting this?" At least you will know where you two stand and can figure it out from there. Best of luck and you do what YOU want to do in the end...take care
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Guys tend to get kind of weird acting when their significant other is pregnant. I think maybe it is the initial shock or something. I agree with MelissaP that you should talk to him about it. If you don't you might end up bottling your emotions and having a melt down later on when you stat getting crazy hormones! Yes, the best thing you can do is to talk to him. good luck!
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from me being a guy, sometimes that can seem like complaining, which is completely ok, sometimes its easy to for us to just quit listening and walk away, we hear alot of complaining, and alot of blame, and im sure you know it takes two to have a child, jsut give him some time to get used to it and get used to you being cranky cause its not gonna get much better, just make sure you let him know that you love him, also hell probably want s_x alot here soon, just think of it as his way of trying to show you affection, its not really just about gettin laid
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