Fiances 14 And Pregnant Im 19

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Michelle - November 10

I think we all need to a__sume that every post is a real post, otherwise there is no point. . . .I've heard of people not knowing it was twins until late on. Danny said in August they had found out it was twins, and he is saying she is due the 5th Dec. Why not believe him? He sounds like he loves her, and that he loves the unborn babies too. He obviously wants to do the best for them both, so personally I think we should support him. Yes they are both young, but who are we to judge people. Good luck Danny with everything. x

 

Michelle - November 10

To Danny's girlfriend, it's nice to hear from you, take care and all the best with your pregnancy and your babies. I think your boyfriend sounds very supportive and helpful. My baby is not due until the end of March (I'm nearly 30 yrs old, live and work in Paris, France) I feel very tired already, so with you having twins you must be very very tired. Hope you all have a wonderful happy time. Happy thoughts (just ignore all of the nasty posts on here. . . )

 

K - November 10

Most women find out they are having twins during their first u/s. Danny professes early on to have gone to many doctors visits. Surely one of them was an u/s. The only way to not know you are having twins when you are almost through with your second trimester, is for you to have not known you are pg, and not having gone to see the doctor. I think this is all false... they supposedly lived in separate parts of England.... him worried about her having a baby at 14 when he knew that her body was 'mature'... not knowing that you have to be 18, not 16, to get married without parental consent... then the twins, that was the kicker. Its all too too too fake. Good job "danny" and "danny's girlfriend", you really did a number!

 

jenna - November 10

Hiya, nice to hear from danny's girlfriend, i hope you are doing well and wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy. It can work and im so glad your bf is standing by you.That says a lot for a guy.You sound very in love and i wish you all the best. Take care luv jenna x x

 

K - November 10

Jenna, aren't you the one that asked 'danny' to email you? Yet you didn't leave your email address... unless you are really Aimee... "Hiya".

 

danny - November 11

hi everyone, my girl's water broke and she's in the hospital. they think one of the baby's is going to make it. i hope so, but i'm starting to regret doing this because i may go to jail.

 

UMMMMM - November 11

y might u go to jail NOW? i know ur age and stuff, but y do u think they will find out? wasnt she due in december? update us. Good luck with your babies if this is real. And i mean that as not sarcastic, I HOPE UR LITTLE ONE/ONES R OK.

 

Danny - November 12

Thank you to the last few nice comments posted on here everyone. My girlfriends doing well, jus very tired! thats expected though! Were both very excited now, and happy that our babies are going to be with us for this Christmas! The twins are doing fine by the way, we've been told they are doing fine and their well! So were all pleased! And the person who clamed to be myself and wrote a post on here saying "hi everyone, my girl's water broke and she's in the hospital. they think one of the baby's is going to make it. i hope so, but i'm starting to regret doing this because i may go to jail." thats false, someones messing around! The babies aren't due until December 5th and my girl isn't in hospital, shes at home resting! Anyway though I'm not going to let fake posts on here get me down! Thanks again o all the nice comments! I'll let you no when I can to keep everyone interested up-dated! Can't wait for our babies! Bye for now XxX

 

hey ppl - November 14

y such the big deal about her age? thats stupid. i got with my now husband at the age of 15 and he was 19. now we have 3 kids and have been married for 9 years. ppl dont look at us now and say OMG HES 5 YEARS OLDER THAN U! CHILD MOLESTER! its just 5 years ppl. when she is 20 he will be 25. ohhhhhh big deal right? not to mention i know lots of girls who had a better head on their shoulders at 15 then they did at 20! some ppl go right down the tube with age. so just remember ppl. 5 year is 5 years whether its 15 and 20 or 35 and 40. its not that big a deal!

 

karine - November 16

if this is a true post, and he truly cares for her i think its nice, he is actually taking his responsibility's and thats good cause most young man leave. I was 18 when me and hubby got together and he was nearly 23. we had our baby girl when i was 19, baby boy when i was 20 and now 22 and on our last pregnancy. we were engaged and got married before my son got here. We meet when i was going on 17yrs, and it was love at first sight, but we waited and got together as i was turning 18yrs. It has been a wonderful relationship with ups and downs, and we love each other more and more everyday that goes by. i beleive that younger teens can experience love at first sight and be happy with that same person throughout their lives. danny & gen, good luck with the babies and the relationship

 

Mel - November 18

Multiples rarely carry to full term. Dont know what they do in England, but but have they not scheduled a C-section yet? Its rare to have twins v____ally now, especially a 14 year old? How can she be carrying twins at her size this far along? And again, I think it's phony, you could have known you were having twins in the first trimester.

 

brenda - November 18

hey danny! well although at her age most girls are not ready to have a baby, most teenagers these days are confronted to make s_xual decisions in 6th 7th and 8th grade! i know i did. For those of you who say that you would put the pervert away if he went out with your daughter. well many young girls that i see at the mall couldn't stop from flirting with older boys. it is so easy to spot the 14 year olds at the mall. you know the 3 friends holding eachother by their arms and wearing a lot of lip gloss. Most parents let their 14 year olds go to the mall by themselves, but most parents don't realize that the mall is the number one place to meet up your "boyfriend" a 14 year old boy or a high school student. most girls or like some people in here call them "child". they go there to flirt and get the phone numbers of "cute guys" i know that its different times and that girls now have the advantage of going to school and grow up and have fun, but think back in time two or three generations back girls at 14 were ready to get married and have children, most of the time with an older man! this couple shouldn't be judged for their age but rather the mans courage to stick with his woman. she will be a woman once she gives birth no matter how old she is. To: Danny, tell your girlfreind that i wish her the best of luck and to try to get as much sleep as she can now. i have a 2month old and i wish i had listened to the sleeping thing. you are very brave for sticking around some 20 somethings don't even stick around(cowards) and for you try to be very understanding this last months it is getting very uncomfortable for her! get her as many pillows as possible, rub her tired feet and ma__sage her back, it helps so much. have yuu thought of names for the twins? are they boy or girl? if you don't mind me asking! if you have any questions after you have your babies post up here and ill be glad to answer them.

 

Danny - November 21

Thank you for your post Brenda! And we are having twin boys, we love the names Kyre and Leo, and always have done, so our babies will most likely be called those names. Im doing everything I can to make my girl comfortable, wont let her do anything to strain her! Shes doing very well, shes very tired all of the time even if she has 12 hours sleep a night, but that was expected. Were both really happy though! She's not having a C-section by the way, she really wanted to, but the doctors have told us that unless theres a problem that she should have them v____ally. Shes quite worried about the pain at the moment, but shes been told to think that after all the pain she will be blessed with two beautiful boys in her arms! Thanks again for your post! Not long now! x

 

Mommy - November 23

Congrats! I had my first baby at 16 and my second at 17 and I am married to their father. I also have 2 boys. I am still 17 and My husband is 22. About 3 months after I'm 18 he will be 23. We are very happy together and love our family. Don't let people tell you different about you can't be in love that young because you can. I have actually loved my husband since I was 12 and he was 17 and the best man and I was the maid of honor at my sisters wedding. We weren't together then of course but shortly after I turned 15 we started dating and Then I got pregnant (not planned but hey it happened and we wouldn't change it) then again just 2 months after our first we got pregnant again. We would never change it for anything but it is hard. We love each other though and our boys and the home we made together. If all you people think that we are bad for starting things early, guess what? My aunt got married to my uncle when she was 14 and he was 21. Today she is 48 I believe and they are still together and in love. Good luck to you and your family Danny.

 

Concerned - November 23

Danny, I’ve been in your shoes buddy. Although that was quite a few years ago for me, I still remember it as if it were yesterday. When I was about to graduate high school at the ripe age of 17, I hooked up with a girl (just like you described about yours). She was HOT, well filled out, and her demeanor obviously displayed something way older than what she really was. She had previously dated a friend of mine. Later on, we started dating me. Well...a weeks after that, she was PREGNANT! Anyway, time went by, ultrasounds came and went, and they all said the same thing.....she was too far along for the baby to be mine. Being that I was young, I married her anyway. We went through the whole birthing process and she came out a winner just like any other woman would. The female body is an absolute wonder – it can do some amazing things. Don't worry about birth because I KNOW she’ll do just fine......trust me. Danny, I also know what it’s like to marry a girl that young as well and I know what you’re going through, so don't hesitate to post your question(s) here......nobody knows who you are. I’ll keep checking in often for your response.

 

Concerned - November 23

One more thing and don't take this negatively please....I am older than you still, and what I know NOW has everything to do with it. This girl IS TOO YOUNG for you. You may feel as if she is the whole world to you. There is nothing wrong with love, but I know this Danny....she will break your heart. She looks mature on the outside, but I promise you she’s not on the inside. I’ll bet a million dollars other people have told you this already, but I’m speaking from real experience. She hasn’t had the privilege of experiencing and learning from love and heartbreaks like all the rest of the 30 year olds out there have been through. Remember when you were 14? Do you really think YOU knew what you know NOW? Don’t kid yourself man! Don't commit to this girl, BUT take responsibility for what you have helped create. That’s all I’m gonna say.

 

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