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One more thing and don't take this negatively please....I am older than you still, and what I know NOW has everything to do with it. This girl IS TOO YOUNG for you. You may feel as if she is the whole world to you. There is nothing wrong with love, but I know this Danny....she will break your heart. She looks mature on the outside, but I promise you she’s not on the inside. I’ll bet a million dollars other people have told you this already, but I’m speaking from real experience. She hasn’t had the privilege of experiencing and learning from love and heartbreaks like all the rest of the 30 year olds out there have been through. Remember when you were 14? Do you really think YOU knew what you know NOW? Don’t kid yourself man! Don't commit to this girl, BUT take responsibility for what you have helped create. That’s all I’m gonna say.

hmmm thats..... interesting. good luck to you both but wow. im 19 and cant even think of having a baby yet. when i was 14 i didnt even think of a baby let alone such a serious relationship like that. when your 14 your supposed to be thinking about homework and absences in school and shopping with your friends, not changing diapers and feeding your baby. well, good luck anyway.

Hi it's Jen Dannys girlfriend I thought I'd post a message on here regarding "concerned" msg. I'd just like to say that after you've obviously read some msgs on here if not all, that I thinks it's bad of you to have wrote to my finace "Don't commit to this girl". The bad bit being that your suggesting to my finace the man who loves me and cares for myself and my wellbeing that he shouldn't commit to me (even though we've both already commited to eachother, and everyone already knows that), were going to be having our twins together very shortly and your saying he shouldn't commit to me? Only a coward of a man would leave a girl who he got pregnant to raise her baby/babies by herself. I'm sorry but in my opinion I was disgraced by hearing that, especially by you already being aware of how much were in love with eachother! And I know the stories, everyone does, of couples who get together young and have babies and think they are so in-love and think they'll be together forever and then a few years down the line they break-up or get divorced, and their babies are left without a parent unit, well I can promise and tell everyone on this forum that this isn't going to happen to us and for anyone who is thinking in their minds that that will happen to us, well quite frankly either of us don't care, because at least in our minds we no the truth. When my boyfriend proposed to me by me saying yes I was agreeing on making a long life commitment to him, and thats something that I wouldn't even think of breaking. Now me and Danny have been through a lot together, good times and bad times, and we haven't gone through all of that to throw it all away now or ever. We've always supported, cared for and loved eachother and It's always going to be that way for us. Some couples won't be as lucky as myself and Danny to have such a strong and loving relationship, thats why I am so thankful that I have that with him! Also, people have posted msgs on here saying that Dannys stupid for being with me, because I'm young and he shouldn't of got me pregnant etc, etc... but just think of this, there are plenty of girls in here not knowing what to do, feeling depressed, upset and used, because their boyfriends have left them when finding out they were pregnant, but even though my man might be older than me, at least he has stayed by me from the moment we found out I was pregnant, some girls aren't so fortunate and I'd just appreciate people bearing that in mind. Sorry for being so harsh "concerned" but I just really don't agree with that one thing you said. Many thanks to everyone elses posts, I try to read them when I can (but mainly Danny does) because I'm resting all of the time now, because the babies are nearly due! Thanks again, take care everyone. XxX

Hi everyone again, would just like to say to "mommy" thank you for your post it was lovely hearing from you. It so nice to hear that after you and your husband had to baby boys together young that your still happy together and have a loving family, and that's exactly what we want! We really are in-love and nothing or know one will ever change that. thank you again "mommy". By the way everyone, were hoping to post pictures on a website of the labour and after pictures of the babies, so if anyone would like them just ask, and I'd be happy to forward the address to you, once we've go the photos! Well me and Jen are very excited now, the babies are nearly due! Her tummys so big! I love stroking it for her, as I know my babies are in their! The thought of it makes me so emotional! Anyway I'll keep everyone posted, thank you again from me and Jen for you replys. Bye for now,

so young and naive... forever is a long long time...

Danny never asked you idiots for input on his relatonship. What he asked was if his girlfriend whom he loves dearly will be ok. First of all you dont know danny or his girl and cant even presume to know what they are going or have been through. I hate people like you that ONLY LOOK AT THE SURFACE. Why dont you use your brains and then respond to this man who is trying to do the right thing instead of imagining your daughters and nieces in this situation and lashing out at danny. Danny you have to be careful what you tell us foolish Americans somtimes. We dont always think with our heart and often times imgine ourselves in situations and giving advise as opposed to hearing YOUR situation. When Danny writes the book on his life feel free to give criticism having known more of the situation untill then JUST ANSWER HIS QUESTION!!!!!!

shut the hell up! please!!

Are you another one of those fools waiting to attack danny? Then you shut the hell up!!!!

in response to you, voice of reason, i agree with you yes but sometimes you have to think with your brain instead of just your heart. raising a baby is a big deal especially when your 14 or 15. im not saying its wrong or whatever but instead of thinking only of "love" and what not why not think of the responsibility that this girl and her bf will have. at 14 how in the heck do you even know what you want with your life? its like college, peopel change their majors all the time bc they just dont know yet and thats when your 18 or 19 or sometimes even 20. when your 14 i think its a little hard to make a reasonable decision about "FOREVER". im not saying its impossible for you guys to be happy danny and the gf, but it wont be easy raising a baby. especially 2 babies.

So what would you have this man do?..........Why discourage a man before a big step in life instead of modivating him? Surely a pat on the back is better than a kick in the b___t. This is not somthing hes deciding to do this is somthing that is done. So the time for criticism has pa__sed and the time for modivation is at hand. I wish you the best of luck Danny, And any other man with a minor whose not pregnant reading this feel free to read these critical post.

well theres nothing you can do now, the babies are almost here. not much you can do and yeah i agree with you on saying that all these people shouldnt be criticizing him so harshly just because it already happened, but im just saying that i just cant comprehend how a 14 and a 19 yr old can honestly say its gonna be forever and then decide to get pregnant bc of "forever". when i was 14 i was writing all over paper me + matt= 4EVER. remember the days? it just seems to me this should have been thought through just a teensy bit more than just ok i love you lets have a couple kids.

Yes you are correct things should have been thought out better. I COMPLETELY AGREE and danny he should know better and picturing a 14 year old girl with a 19 year old isnt right and it will be hard I agree with all those points but its just to late its done we cant afford to tell this man to leave her.In a world where doing the right thing is a myth the truth is we need all the dannys we can get. And yeah we dont know what the future holds for young Danny but we also dont even know if we will be here tommorow. Lets slow down and take things day by day. Side thought: When I said we could use all the Dannys we could get I didnt mean Men who go for younger girls and I want to clarify that because I can tell by the vibe in this room It will be used agaist me later.

yep, your right voice of reason whats done is done and people shouldn't be telling him to leave her. i just think that the actual situation is just... and im sorry for saying this danny and gf, but to me its just.. kinda gross. to me a 14 and a 19 yr old just doesnt mix and yeah when shes 20, he will be 25 but why couldnt they have waited that long to have a couple kids if both of them are so mature. when your mature you know when you are able to take care of a baby and when you are mature you know when its time to have a baby and no matter what, im sorry but a 14 yr old cant make that kind of decision. i wish all the best to you both, bc this has already happened and theres not much you can do now. i just hope that you guys think of other things that may come up in your relationship with much more maturity and responsibility than you have used in this decision.

I completely agree with her ^ Danny use a little more caution in the future because being prudent and making good choices is mature and what makes you a man. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years I was 18 and she was 17 and now we live together and Im 22 and shes 21 and were expecting a baby boy in January. IT IS VERY HARD!!!!!!!! It is not easy at all. I was idealistic like you in the beginning with all that forever talk and all those 4 hour conv. on the phone but that does go away Danny its just the truth in life. I love my girl dearly but true love is admitting you and her have problems and working through the test of time. You will probably tell me your love is stronger and that it wont happen to you and I wont tell you otherwise for it is that att_tude that may be the deciding factor in whether you give up or not later.

Voice of Reason, you are just awesome haha. i thought i was the only one that felt like this but im glad you agree with me totally. Im 19 just like you danny and i have been with my bf for almost 2 years. i love him very very much but we cannot afford and are just not ready to have a family let alone get married. regardless of how much i love my bf, we can definitly wait to get to that level. we wont get married or have kids until we are financially ready and stable with a good job and home. As far as Voice of Reason, follow his advice danny, he knows what he's talking about.

if shes strong.. i lived and i was 13