My Boyfriens

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laura4 - December 12

my name is laura and im 6months my boyfriend lived with me until he realized i use to treat him bad always yelling.we broke up and i went back for him and realized how much i love him. i moved in with him and now he treats me bad like i use to but worse alway going out with friend i cought him texting another girl dosent care how i feel stresses me out alot and later he says sorry what do i do? do i diserve this? i love him so much

 

Cat24 - December 13

laura4 you have 2 options. break away from the loser and start a life afresh with you and your baby and hopefully meet a much nicer guy along the line. or stay with a guy who cheats on you constantly and treats you (and when the baby is here, the baby too) very badly. use your head hun!!

 

mjvdec01 - December 14

You don't love him, you just feel stuck and desperate. You are 6 months pregnant and probably wondering how you would do it all alone. Alone is how you should do it. This guy is an a__s, and you and your child don't need his immaturity. Do you have family close? Check in to government programs if you need them. Once that baby is born it is you r responsibility to work your b___t off to give that baby the best life possible. Dump the a__s hole, and make your own life. Don't forget the child support payments. Having a new baby is hard, but is also the most wonderful. Reach out to family and ask for help when you need it. Good luck!

 

Xndra - December 20

Laura, No one deserves to be treated badly. Sounds to me like he just wants to get even. But 2 wrongs don't make a right. If he's trying to make you feel what he felt when you treated him badly, that tells me that he has alot of growing up to do. It's not just you anymore, you are carrying a baby inside you. Since he has no sense at this time, the best thing for you to do is take good care of yourself and your baby. Good luck and God bless.

 

early40 - January 3

Laura. He doesn't deserve you. There are a lot of single moms out there. your baby does not need a father like that. Remember even unborn babies can sense your hurt. Do your baby and yoourself a favour, get out of this man's life. Good Luck.

 

expectingbaby1 - January 12

I agree with everyone else's answer in saying he doesn't deserve you at all, nor do you deserve the way he's treating you! A pregnant woman should be completely loved and pampered! But also keep your chin up! Your boyfriend could also be acting out of complete fear because they get terrified about all this baby stuff as well! But do not for one second think if you leave him that you will forever be a single woman with a baby in tow! I was left at 4 months pregnant and an incredible man has walked into my life with a complete understanding of what he's getting into and a love for a child that isn't "technically" his. There still are good guys out there so don't hesitate for one second to leave him to find someone willing to treat you better! Good luck!

 

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