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I have no objections to regular p___n, you know guy on girl, even with a little girl on girl mixed in. My b/f, however, was paying $30 a month to download 5 or 6 movies a day of this 19 year old, skinny brunette chick that did nothing except m_________e in front of a camera. So basically, he was getting off on another woman. I flipped out, he trashed his hard drive he had all the p___n saved on and cancelled his subscription, and now, we have a tenative truce. I will watch p___n with him, but I do not want him using another woman in any way for s_xual graitification.

i'm ok, as long as it's tasteful (as in no underage stuff, beastiality, rape, etc) and as long as i'm aware of it (he's not hiding it) and my dh doesn' t get carried away. there's nothing wrong with an occasional p___n but the minute it replaces physical time we have together then i have a problem. i've told my dh that if he ever wants to watch one together i would. my dh used to be, he says, addicted to it before he met me and now he tries to stay away from it.

I don't see a problem with p___n. Sometimes my dh and I watch it together. I would def rather have him watch p___n than go somewhere else.

i agree with all the girls that say they are glad he's at home watching that rather than goin out and getting the real thing... my bf seems to think he is gonna hurt me if we have s_x.. ive been to the hospital a couple of times so i think that he is just kinda scared.. so he is using his resources lol... i haven't said anything about it and i figure why say anything?? he might get embarra__sed or poopy with me and i don't really need that so i let him be... after i have this kid tho you better believe im gonna jump his bones!!!!!! lol

OK, maybe I'm a prude...BUT, I think that is totally gross!! I mean, to each their own, but personally, I think that there is something wrong with a man watching p___n. Thankfully my husband has no interest in p___n (or so he says..lol). We've been together for 4 years and he's never once asked me to watch a video with him, nor have I once found a magazine. THere's just something about watching or looking at those people that makes me cringe....they are all someone's children...nobody knows who they really are...it's just gross!!!

It's not like anyone is saying they are watching p___n with little kids (now, that's gross). But if it is grown adults. You are someone's child also. S_x is a natural part of life and if you thought it was so gross then how did you end up pregnant? Everyone is ent_tled to their own opinion. Some people find that it puts more excitement into their s_x life (others may not). I think it is completely healthy to watch p___n, unless you make a career out of it.

I think watching p___n alone or together is disgusting. Also, I don't think that "Ew" meant that s_x is gross, but that watching other people having s_x is gross, which I completely agree with. But, I guess each couple can get their jollies in different ways. I prefer my husband get his from me though.

I personally see nothing wrong with p___n. RIght now he would prefer s_x, but as I have no s_x drive, he has other options. I don't mind watching it with him, we make comments about it together. He has never been to strip clubs, but I have been to a couple, I have, in the past, even taken one of my boyfriends at the time to a strip club on his b-day.

To all the ladies that say its ok for your dh to watch p___n... Is it ok for them to be in the same room with a naked woman and get off? Is it ok for them to watch this p___n and masturbate without you? I hope you know that if opportunity presents itself, he will go out and have the real thing. When he has s_x with you, he is thinking about what he saw and not you. A man told me that. Is it ok to be shown that you are not the only woman he looks at s_xually. Who is better, you or her? Who is really the physical subst_tute? We will never know, we can only a__sume. ;)

Don't believe and take stock in what one man tells you - I think that might be the case for him, but every man is different. If you have doubts, hangups - fine - I trust my dh. And btw, a man once told me that when the love of his life is not available, p___n is the SAFEST way to take care of things without getting into trouble. Other women? Come on - maybe some men, but you can not lump them all together. I trust my dh - maybe you don't trust yours??

My fiance knows that he were to cheat with another live woman, it would be over. I know I turn my fiance on, but I see nothing wrong with him thinking other women are s_xy. Most woman are s_xy. We have an open and honest relationship, I would not jeopardize it over p___n. If that is what he likes, and its safe, I say go ahead. I am usually tired when I get home from work and not in the mood for s_x, if he finds another way to relieve himself, good for him.

I think that it's ok to watch p___n occasionally but if it starts to replace s_x it's a problem. I know it's strange but I will go through the videos and show him the ones he can watch and the ones he can't. I hate the ones with the skinny blondes (no offense to any skinny blondes on here lol) and fake b___bs. Also rape, lesbian/gay, things like that I think is gross. If I'm not interested in s_x or am too tired I would rather he watched it and took care of himself than look for it elsewhere or be s_xually frustrated and p__sy. I even watch it with him sometimes even though it does nothing for me. And just so everyone is clear, I have no problem with lesbian or gay people but watching them in p___n yucks me out. To hmmmmm, I know my hubby would never cheat on me. He is so self-concious and shy that I still have to initiate s_x and we have 2 kids and been together almost 3 years. He blushes even going into a s_x shop.

It is wonderful that you women have so much faith in your mate. To say something will never happen is deep, especially when you are not the one to make the decision. Hopefully it will never happen . In my marriage, trust isn't an issue, I just know that temptation will come so I just pray for my dh and hope he will do what is right. I live in a small city, where my dh grew up and women tend to do almost everything except getting naked to get his attention. He is a well educated very good looking green eyes, curly hair african american man, with a great personality, which isn't normal here, the eye color I mean. It is really pathetic the way these women act as though a man is the air they breathe. It doesn't matter if he is married or not. This is my stand on p___n, I feel it is ok if you are open with each other, I don't get anything out of it, but dh does. He is free to watch as much as he wants. I figure one day he will grow out of it. To Mommy.... that's cute, I wish they were all that way. :)

LOL usually when he goes into s_x shops it's for me otherwise I don't think he would bother. ;o)

So you have never m_________ed without your husband around? There are plenty of times when people, husbands and wifes, get the urge and there significant other is not around so they have to help themselves. Big deal. I use toys, so am I cheating on my dh because of that? No. He's not cheating on me if he's watching a chick get a guy off. I don't feel threatened because I don't look like a p___n star, not that I would want to anyways. I'm very secure in my relationship and am not threatened by another women. Especially if she's on a freaking video. Men think about s_x all the freaking time. There can be issues when your spending tons of money per month either on computer p___n or renting videos or going to strip clubs. That's an issue. But an occasional "p___n night" as we like to call them, works for a lot of people. It's fun, spices up your s_x life, and is a little something different. It's not like you sit down to watch the p___n like a normal movie. Usually it's in the bedroom with candles, oils...that kind of stuff and you have a visual stimulant while your pleasing each other. I also am getting a little irritated by you Porn Naysayers to quit calling those of us, and there's a lot, nasty and disgusting. It's rude. Just because others like something doesn't mean there's something wrong or horrible with us. If you don't watch p___n and you think it's gross, why the hell would you post on this in the first place? Oh, that's right, so you can try and put people down. Get a life.

I agree 100% Steph. Very nicely said.