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TO HI.... jealousy is a horrible thing, me and my partner have been together nearly 6 years, very happily married, i dont need to look at other men, as i am more than happy with what i have got, and visa versa, the reason why i answered this post is because women are saying all men look at p___n, all men have to be eyeing up women ever 5 minutes otherwise there not normal, its natural.. WHAT ALOAD OF SXXT, all men are different, and i get sick of people tarring them all with the same brush, i know some women who are slags, does that mean we all are... so read MY post properly too, so many people are jealous of how close we arw, its not denial, its called happy and content. men who look at p___n and dont want there women involved..... id be seriously worried, its not right, sharing it together alot of people think its healthy for the relationship, but on your own... creepy.

I really dont think its creepy that a man looks at p___n by himself, I think its normal. It sounds to me like clueless husband is just looking for entertainment-it very well could have cars. MOST men dont view p___n as s_xual (not like women see s_xual), but can be as simple as just to look (men are VERY simple, not as complicated as women). Which is why if you talk to professonals (MDs, and mental health professionals) they would say its normal. Of course their are exceptions, like a guy who misses work to look at p___n, or who wont have s_x with his wife any more, you get the idea. It sounds like clueless husband is just a normal guy (some men dont like p___n and some do). I dont think just becouse your married you have to have your nose in every aspect of your spouses life. Everytime you or your spouse m_________es, does the other HAVE to be in the other room? No- its ok for that to just be a private moment alone. So why does p___n have to be a group activity? I have also looked at at the most current research on this topic, and it says that men who view p___n on a regular basis, have more healthier stronger sperm, then men who dont. This comes from a reliable scientific source. I also think she is being mature about this and seperating her feelings vs the truth, many women would just fly off the handle and freak out. In reality, whats the worst thats going to happen with NORMAL p___n usage? He going to leave her for one of the women on the computer, (not going to happen) the guy has 15-20 minutes to himself a day, he shares the other 24 hours with her. I wouldnt worry to much.

To clueless: Sounds like a perfectly normal guy to me. Like I said before, as long as your s_x life is normal, I wouldn't be concerned. Sounds like he likes to keep this aspect of his life private, or is embara__sed by it. I guess he has that right! To teigan: It sounds like you and your husband are close. Sounds to me like you both are close like GIRLFRIENDS!!! Does he like to do your hair and put on your clothes too? You sound like you have the most boring s_x life in the world. I feel sorry for you!

HI.. omg.. a relationship were they love each other and there close.. gasp.. its not healthy... arnt couples allowed to be close , jealous of all the love and affection teigan is getting, and you have to fight for yours, awww poor iccle unloved puppy. i think your att_tude stops your hubby liking you.

Well I just finished reading all the posts, and I have to say I am a little disapointed. I wrote in to get sound, helpful advice and opinions (which I got a few, thanks) but like most posts on this website, it starts to migrate away from being helpful and turns into a big ol p__sing match between women. We all have different types of relationships with our spouses, and whos to say what is right and whats not. Why are we acting so judgemental towards eachother? I just dont understand, maybe this is why men are afraid to talk to women about this type of stuff-they are afraid we will loose our heads and start to act irrational. I guess it was a mistake to bring this type of issue to this forum.

Thanks TNO, for being honest.

i dont remember syaing in any of my posts that p___n is gross or weird watching it with your partner. just because some people dont like p___n doesnt make them out of touch, or less of a couple, so no im not out of touch, we just dont have that relationship where we need it, and i certainly dont need people telling me i have a c___p s_x life because we dont watch p___n, forgive me if i get turned on by my husband without any help. no wonder people are struggling with relationships, when they get advice like this

I don't like p___n, never felt the need to watch it or even think about watching it, my wife is all i need, not everyone needs it, or feels its right, societycis to blame as your all pushed into this corner where you think everyone has to do what everyone else is doing and that to me is just bollocks. does it make you feel like a proper man if you watch it and drool over women. clueless i have no idea why your man wants to watch p___n with out you and wont tell you, but if its bothering you, then clearly something is wrong, but asking men for advice on it is plain stupid, as they will all tell you they were born to do it, its natural, and we are all visual, well not all of us. you will not get the answer your looking for.

clueless..u come here for free advices..u shouldn't be expect anything..this is a forum..we are not professional..just try give opinions or advices..so don't be disappointing if u don't get the answer u need..I guess it's like a girl describing all her symptoms and ask if she is pregnant..How do we know? We can try to make an educated guess and that's it..I am married and I look at p___n (my wife ok with it)..I don't look at it 24 hrs a day since I am more interest in World News, and what's happening around the world...Porn are everywhere..u can see it for free on website (compare to old day, have to pay to access strip club, buy PlayBoy mags)..I was in Japan, and I was shock to see men reading p___n comic in subway!! School girl wear mini skirt or skirt and show off their legs..Some p___n website catern to people who have fetist desire..like bondage, incest and so on..S_x is part of life and make it exciting..Sometime I wonder what is like to be a Priest..who is a man but can't have s_x..It must be frustrating! I understand your worry and try to find the answer..Why don't u give us the website URL and see what's the big deal?? At least your husband is not calling those s_x phone line, subscribe to those p___n sites, addicted to drug or gambling..then I guess is better no? Look around u..the world is one f***ck up place..so what u have is normal..

Is cool u guyz not into p___n..and that's good your husband is turn on by looking at you..u guyz have a great s_x life and just devoted to each other..That is amazing..When u were single and ur husband was looking for a girlfriend..Did he get turn on by looking at beautiful women? who have gorgeous body?? So now does he still have that same desire? even married?? If not he must be so brain-washed, or afraid to admitted...Face the face...Been married doesn't turn us into a saint..Don't your husband even have a slighest desire when he see a beautiful young woman? When u have a daughter and she mature into a woman..man I bet there will be some s_xual tension there..It's normal..Young girl at some point will grow very attach to their father..hence s_xual tension..

Anon- I thing you misunderstood my last post. It was helpful when I got advice-helpful advice- like from you. But please read the last few post from a few people- they were calling eachother names, and cussing. Thats not helpful, thats imature.

To teigan and her husband-you both have the exact same writing style. Interesting.

To Clueless: I apologize to you. I didn't mean any harm...

To troy: I noticed that too....very interesting...he, he

Teigan- I really think you and your husband have shared your opinions enough on this post. Since your WAY past the point of bowing out gracefully, please go away and stop posting, its fruitless, we are tired of you shoving your relationship and feeling down our throats. Its not even helpful- its annoying and imature.If your life and relationship were so wonderful, you wouldnt spend so much time and effort trying to convince us (or maybe yourself?) how perfect things are.

to ANON ???? why not put your name, i am not trying to convince anyone that i have a perfect relationship, like i have said thousands of times, i just dont like people telling me what my husband or myself do or dont do, wether right or wrong, i should know wether i look at men, and i should know if he looks a women, we dont need p___n and thats that, its not a point im trying to make, im defending what good name my man has left as all women and other men ever do is drag them to perverts levels, " hes a man he MUST look" " i think britney is fxxxing s_xy, that means all other men must" its nonsense. and if people think that a man looking at p___n, is just "entertainment, something to do that there not really interested in then there thicker than what i thought, i dont have a perfect relationship, we have ups and downs, but certainly not about c___p like this, get your self new husbands as they will never change for you!!