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oh mary you are a star for carrying on so long. How does the pear juice help? does jaime drink it? I tried a bottle of formula this morning and jasmin spat it out, she will take b___st milk from a bottle reluctantly though. im still feeling c___p, taking parecetamol, really want an easy night, im so tired
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I was almost an october mom! haha I was due oct.23, my guess the whole time was halloween, and she was born 12:42am Nov.1st. lol. But I got pregnant in BC which is an hour behind the time where I live now so I say technically I was right ;)
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Had Adam in hospital today about him being ill. His tonsils are red and ma__sive, they think it might be that. So if he is still ill on monday I have to take him back.
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that stinks Lesley, i hope he gets better soon. today's my first day back at work and i'm not looking forward to it much, that's for sure. i just dread that the baby will scream the whole 5 hrs i'm away.
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hi shannon and Lesley, hope your both still online, my rat dh after all thats happened leaving me here with Jasmin, after writting me a few really nice emails, I checked his enail box to find hes been writting emails to this girl he was with years ago, she said he makes her so happy, sending him lots of kisses, he wrote to her (i can only read inbox) but obviously didnt say he was now married with a dughter as she asked him again what he was doing, i feel sick, im waiting here on my own with Jasmin, he left me no money for bills anything Im broke tired but was hoping to make things work when he got back but now think the only reason he will come back is for Jasmin, i dont want to spend my life with someone, who doesnt love me and thinbks about other girls, I just wrote him an email asking him about all this, trying not to be confrontational but aghhhhh
why cant I just hate him and tell him to p__s off? something inside me wants him back
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that's awful lisa! what an a__s! but don't just a__sume that because he may be sending questionable emails to a former flame that he doesn't love you. he probably wanted to hear someone say all kinds of garbage to him to make himself feel good while you guys were going through a rocky period. talk to him about it, definitely. of course, i could be wrong and he might just be a slimeball. i'd try to make things work for the baby and you still care about him, too. guys are so stupid. i love my dh and we're not having major problems but i know he can be a dumba__s sometimes. your man needs to figure out what the heck he wants to do with his life and who he wants in it, that's a lot to think about. hopefully, he won't be stupid and things will work out between you two. :-) keep us posted!
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of course him not helping out with things financially is a dirtbag thing to do. and i wouldn't even let him in the house if he drinks, if he still gets out of control.
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how do i stop him comming in the house when drunk? he has a key and i always ask him to stay at friends or hote if he is going to get drunk, but he always comes home, well its over if he does that again, esspecially as my parents got involved the last time.
I think you might be right wanting to hear how great he is from someone else as im sure not telling him that at the mo! it hurts though that hes having nice emails and shes sending him kisses when im flabby tired grumpy and were going through hard times, i feel like he hates me. I sent him an email saying if he didnt want to be with me then dont, as i dont want to spend my life with someone who doesnt love me (this was as a result of that email) was that ott and jumping to conclusions, I could go in a delete it from his box?
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just checkin' in everyone :) Trinity is doing great....she sleeps about 5 hrs. at night and then I just put her to my b___st and we both go back to sleep :) I take her to the doc. on Thursday to see how much weight she's gained, so far so good...still got my milk! Lisa...that totally sucks...he sounds like a jerk...go delete his emails..hehe...
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hi barb, trouble is most men seem to be in the jerk category one way or another!!!
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I have slept for hours again this afternoon, so I'll not be able to sleep tonight. Lisa don't delete the emails you sent. Let him read them. You can't live a lie and neither can he. If there is no love there from either one of you then it's best not to be with each other. It isn't fair on anyone. What have you done since having little one? I've done nothing much for myself, so in a couple of weeks I'm getting my hair done just in time for christmas. I want half chopped off and the underneth done blonde and then a few blonde tips put in at the top. I have seen it on someone and I like it. After I've had that done I'll get a new outfit (which could turn depressing if I look flabby in everything) but hopefull I will feel better about myself. Hows everyone doing for christmas? Nearl;y ready yet? I have one more present to get for my oldest then I'm done for the kids. Just adults to buy for. I recieved a letter about Ben's hearing test and in total it will cost £335. I don't think we are taking him private. It is a lot of money to pay. I will just keep on at NHS to try get him seen quicker. If they make me wait 13 weeks, then tell me there is a problem I am going to really kick off. I hate my area. We are always last for things to happen.
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lesley, thats a mAD ammount of money, they were looking for people to train health visitors to do hearing tests in our area, i could get their phone no, then you could come over to c_mbria and be a volunteer and stay with me, got to be worth a shot, the test takes literally 10 secs each ear
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lesley, I had thought a haircut would be nice, always makes you feel good, but i cant afford it at the mo, so cut my own tonight!!!
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Shannon,
Does dh stand for "d__n husband"? I am sure he's not that bad. You can get a lot worse I am sure.
It could get really worse ... like if he was a democrat or something.
Isabelle finally went to sleep ... and is lying in the crib ... and didn't cry after 5 seconds.
Its so exciting.
Anyway, time to read a book.
Your loving husband,
Andy
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Lisa - Sorry to hear you're having problems with your husband. I hope there's nothing going on. Lesley - Sorry to hear your son is ill. Shannon - That's funny Andy saw what you wrote! Just incase my husband is also logging on you're wonderful! He's on night duty tonight so he is really. Bless him. I only see him at weekends now though as I'm at my parents.
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I think it's sweet that Shannons husband takes interest in what she is doing. Would be nice if John actually took notice of me for once. Lisa, what is that training about. I know it doesn't take long to do a hearing test. I am disgusted by the amunt it is going to cost. I know my son is worth every penny plus more, but I really can't afford that much. I only got £100 a week, then £156 every 4 weeks (child benefit). It would mean going without for almost 4 weeks, which is impossible.
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