Vaginal Vs Caesarean Birth

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marcie to the nurse - October 24

with my 1st,natural labour,the pain meds did'nt take.The gas and air did'nt seem to do much,another they tried did'nt take.The nurses,yea doing a wonderful job,but seemed to be rushing about,and it made my panic a bit,I also felt alone,and the pain was so intense and remembering wondering how labouring mothers can forget that pain,no way was I going to.Labour pain is renound for such pain and I can see why.The section was a different positive story,everything planned,and relaxed as much as you could be.The recovery was actually not as bad as I thought.Ok getting out of bed for the 1st time was a little tricky,but with the pain meds it was managable,and in no way as bad as the natural birth,or the discomfort I felt afterwards.I went home and took my time,which was great,and it was great.I had my husband to help,and glad to take it easy.I can say I loved the section,any birth you are going to get pain,but the section was tolerable and actually enjoyable.

 

To Sham - October 25

I would probably suggest do a C-sec just to make sure. I have a friend w/ 2 twin boys and they're from c-sec. I think it would be safer.....thats all.

 

Nicole - October 25

Hi Jenny, I had natural birth, I absolutly loved it. Make sure you do your exercised and learn TO RELAX is the key. I used many Yoga tech. and it really worked, learning to control your breathing helps as well. I would try to have natural again ! The only thing that was sore afterwards was that my daughter scratched me a little and I had to pour water on myself while I went pee. Other than that, I had no problems. I had one shot of Demoral and that helped me sleep. I didn't scream once ! Just relax ! Best of luck to you !

 

Abby - October 26

I'd choose a natural any day,get the pain over and done with. With the c-section the pain lingers. Five months later i still wasn't able to stand next to the kitchen bench, properly hold my baby or move around comfortably.

 

charlotte - October 26

abby,I have known women with natural births to have suffered afterwards as well.I think it depends on your own situation.You can good and bad in both.I had a cesarean and went in with a positive att_tude,I enjoyed the birth,was wide awake at the moment of birth,and felt the same as my husband,not in pain,or a bit tired from the pushing and labour,but focussed,and we had music playing in the background,not that I remember what it was mind! The recovery for me was not too bad at all,with the pain medications it is tolerable.the nurses are a great help,and lets be fair just after you had a baby you could do with a bit of help.it was a great experience a cesarean birth for me.

 

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