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To Paula...yeah, you have momto3boys and me mixed up. I had emergency surgery in march to remove an ectopic pregnancy and I am mom to 3 girls!!! ; ) . It is really hard to be strong I know , when you have lost something you never thought was possible to have again in the first place. I had three misscarriages before I had my tubal ligation and I thought the surgery would end my problems....I had no idea it would aid them! But it is TRULY amazing how we can put ourselves back together.

SaHaRaRAIN - You know I was thinking the same thing. I was thinking that maybe it wasn't meant for me to get a tubal in the first place. But the body is an amazing thing!

To SaHaRaRAIN and Momto3boys - sorry about mixing you guys up. :) Life has just been hectic for me. Hard to get back into the groove of things ya know. Today is my birthday and I found out yesterday that my father is in the hospital and also know that I will be getting the results from my blood test back today. Today of all days I do not want to find out that my baby is finally gone from my body. I guess somewhere in my mind I just want to think that it has survived pas the D&C and the methotrexate shot. Guess I'm just not ready to let go yet. Cried myself to sleep Sunday night becasue I had to go Monday to give blood for HCG test.

Paula - Happy Birthday! Sorry to hear about your father. I have a few sad moments myself cause I had started to actually think that I was going to get my little girl, but I guess not. I hope and pray that things get better for you.

Happy Birthday Paula- Hope your dad gets better. May God Bless you in your time of need.

Happy Birthday Paula!!!! Wow, who would have guessed our Birthdays would be on the same day. Today is my 30th birthday! Oh! I'm getting old. I'll pray for your father right now. Have a wonderful Blessed day! Best Wishes to all.

Thank you Shanika and Toni for the birthday wishes. And sending them your way too Toni...Happy 30th. I am 29 today. Just got my test results back. No HCG's left. Baby is officially gone. But I still have two wonderful, healthy children and I am very happy for that.

I'm probably just pms'ing...but I'm still 7 days away from my af. I usually don't get symptoms this far out. I'm eating like a bottomless pit, my bbs are very sore, I fall asleep as soon as I lay down (which is not normal for me), I have had a runny nose and sore throat, but don't feel sick and I am extremely bloated and a little crampy. It could all just be wishful thinking..... BTW...happy birthday Paula and I hope your dad is ok!

Happy Birthday Paula and Toni!!! Paula I will pray for you father as well. I know God is with him and he is watching over him. There is nothing I can say to ease your pain over the loss of you pregnancy, except I will keep you in my prayers. I know when I had my miscarriage in 2001, nothing made me feel better until I sorted out the situation in my mind and heart and started to let go. But, you never forget that baby. I was suppose to have that baby February 6th, 2002, and whenever that date comes by, I feel sad. I have three beautiful miracles, and I thank God for them, but, still long for that baby as well. I still don't know what is going on with me. Still have to wait another week for an ultrasound. But, in the meantime, everyone is telling me I look sooo pregnant. Even my husband is convinced that I am pregnant. My doctor is thinking that I am too. So, I just have to wait and see. I will stop talking your heads off. But, I will keep you guys posted and God Bless everyone's day! :)

And happy birthday Toni!

hi i had a clamp on my tubes after my last child i was told that it comes off after so many years because of my age the doctors that did it,told me i was young and i was having to many kids and i didn,t want it done but he did it anyway he had my mom to sign behind my back so when i went in to have my baby he did it i,am mostly stress from this because i have talk to all kinds of doctors to get it remove and the cost of it to get it remove my fiance and i don,t have the money and i really don,t know what to do about this i trusted this doctor and for him to betray me like that is just so emotional now it is hard to trust any other doctor i had a law sue but i was young and didn,t know about the statue of limitation please if anyone can help please do so.i really want something done because he might do someone else young like he did me.thank you and god bless all

To Paula...I know how hurt you feel inside. I too put in my mind that maybe I was suppose to have the surgery instead of medication because there were two babies... One in my tubes and one in my uterus. My mind kept thinking this until I took another pregnancy test and it showed negative. I was so upset to see the results, even when I kept telling myself to be ready for a positive or negative sign. I didn't think I was going to make it thru this time. I mean with my past miscarriages and now this one. Sometimes you feel ..going thru bad times doesn't make you stronger...but weaker. But here I am again..back to as normal as can be...if I was ever normal to start :-)

Hi Christy I really don,t know how common it is i,m stress over the whole situation,I have talk to doctors and everything about it and the only thing i could come up with is to have the reversal done when I come up with the money if only i knew that my doctor back than i trusted that he would do me that way not only my doctor but also my mom ,so i,m just putting in gods hand I have been stress from this whole thing and not only me but my daughters have too that feel my pain and i hate for my babys to see me stressing like that i try my best to whole it in but i couldn,t i have suffer so many problems from this well i,m getting ready to go right now so if you have any information you can give me please do so thank you and god bless

Hi, all seems as if I found this board at the right time. I have read all of the postings and feel exactly the same as most of you. I am 29 and had my tubal in Oct. 1999 right after my 2nd daughter. I have 2 girls and a wonderful husband. My two girls are from a previous marriage and my current husband doesn't have any children. I have always had irregular periods and I think theres just something different about it this time around. I've been feeling very tired, nauseated, back aches, emotional/moody, "loosing my waistline" and I also have a on again off again pain on the right side of my pelvic area. My last period was about 1-11/2 months ago. I went to the doctor yesterday and took a PT and it was neg. So they took blood to do another test and I haven't heard back yet. I did tell my husband last night and he was touched he had no idea that I could even get pregnant w/o a reversal. But I did tell him about all of the stories I read and that if it does happen great, but if it doesn't happen then we still are going to go through w/ the reversal next summer. I just pray that the good lord bless us all with the opportunity to have another bundle of joy. I just don't understand how is it that we can all have the same symptoms and all have had tubals, I thought it was just my body freaking out on me.

wow oh wow, oh man! Hi ladies! Im 44,have a 24 ,21,20 ,6 and 5 year old.had a tubal ligation in 99. I took 3 pregnanct tests which were neg, and decided to spring for a menupause test kit.It also is neg. I throw up, tender b___sts, purplish down below, bloated,and feel constant pressure and pain. my last period was in april. now I know exactly what to do,after reading all of these mails. I made an appointment with a doc. sounds like mine is a tubal preg. I wish this hadnt have happened. I dont know for sure yet, but nobody likes to be cut on alot. dont you agree? I hope all of you who wish to have a baby, get what you want. and Im scared for myself and all the ones who have neg. results, but all the signs. Ill pray for all of us. wow, I didnt know this kinda thing is so common. tts goin out of the house now, peace and love be with you all. tt girl

I got my blood test result back from the Dr. today and it was negative. I am still having the pain on my right side and now I am feeling like..... That's OK. I have an appointment next Thurs. for him to take a look and make sure that everything is ok in that area. ? Does anybody know if a etopic preg. shows up on a blood test? ?