Periods After Miscarriage
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Hi again ladies. Well, it has been pretty much 2 months since I had to terminate my pregnancy. I have only gotten some spotting here and there, but not a real AF. I still have really bad cramps, and hope it is not something serious. I have made a Dr.'s appt for next Wed. I hope everything is OK because we really want another chance...it is our anniversary on Sunday, and we want to be able to celebraste the right way! Annemarie, I am so sorry that you forgot to erase that day's Dr.'s appt. I know how you feel. I still have pple asking when I'm due and stuff...it is hard, but hopefulyl everything will be OK. I will be thinking of all of you, ladies.
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dear dak thank you for your input and concern this sight has really helped a lot. I am still going for blood work about 4 weeks later my hcgs are finally going down. i guess i am not pregnant any more but we are trying again wish me luck. thanks alot i couldn't have done it with out you.
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| Dak - September 15 |
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Hie ladies, Anniemarie, I am very sorry for that, please have faith AF will not show its ugly face one day. I understand how the appointment issue hurts you its like reminding you about the preg you lost. Do not worry too much sometimes we fail to get rid of everything because of how dissappointed we become with m/c. eg. I subscribed somewhere regarding development of the baby. They kept sending me the newsletters about how the baby is growing it hurts me alot that I sent them an email to stop. Now they have stopped but the web page still shows how old the preg would have been and the due date. I have stopped visiting that site because I cant stand it. Crystal you are welcome, I am wishing you all the best as you are ttc. Forget about another m/c. This time is another preg you are planning to have. You should have positive thoughts about it. PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU LADIES
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Dak & Kelly thank you for your kind words and support. I guess we just all have to take it one day at a time. Here is to hoping AF doesn't pay any of us a visit this month and for the next 9! Babydust.
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| Dak - September 19 |
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Thanks Anniemarie, just an update. Af arrived on 15th Sept at night. This was CD29 of 35day cycle. Today is CD5. How are you all ladies doing. Anyone with good news? I have not lost my hope. I know that we will have BFP's next time. We need to bed for the sake of fun not baby making. With that I hope we will conceive. I am wishing all those waiting for BFP's good luck so that AF shouldnt show up. You are all in my prayers. On what cycle day are you Annemarie? Kay and Kelly where are you ladies? We need to hear from you.
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Thank you, Dak, for your kind words. It's now been almost two months and a week since we terminated the pregnancy and my emergency D&C. I habe gotten my AF, but still have cramping pain. I have a DR.'s appointment this Wednesday, so hopefully he'll make sure everything is healing ok. I am wondering if I may have scar tissue, maybe that's why I'm not healing quickly. I hope it is not bad news, we want so badly to start on another baby. Anyways, I will keep you updated after my appointment.
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| kay - September 19 |
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hey ladies, this is kay, just checking in. i am stil ttc, but nothing yet.
-mblious@hotmail.com
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| Dak - September 20 |
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Thanks ladies for the updates. Kelly , I am wishing you all the best so that they should find a problem and treat it. The good thing is that many preg complications are treatable. Kay, stop worrying and thinking much about ttc. It will work one day. If we just remove the fact that we are bedding for a baby I hope everything will be fine. Wishing you all the best so that you should have a bfp. Please let's keep in touch. STICKY BABY DUST TO YOU ALL
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Hi ladies, i am new to this site. I had a m/c on Aug 21, i have not got my period yet but am hoping it will come soon so we can ttc again soon. Reading all these is rea__suring to know i am not alone. Is it possible to get pregnant before you get your period back? Good luck to you all.
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| Dak - September 20 |
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Hie Kate & welcome aboard preg-info. I am very sorry for your loss. You are not alone some of us have also gone through it and we know how you feel. You will get better as time goes. I had a m/c on June 3 05, i still feel the pain of losing my precious baby. There are alot of people who conceive after m/c but there is still risk of another m/c. I think you should wait for at least one cycle to make sure that your body is back to normal and that the uterine lining has healed. You will end up in a heavy period if you conceive while the uterine lining is still thin. I understand how the need for babies is but we need to understand what is happening to our bodies. How far along were you? I am wishing you all the best so that you heal. Do not worry about af, it will come soon, it comes between weeks 4-8. Good luck. You are in my prayers
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Dak - If what I had last month was a period then I am on CD 26. I am not sure how long my cycle is because I was on the pill for so long and then we got pg the first try after I stopped taking the pill and the had the m/c so I have not had a chance to guage my cycle. I took another test on Sept. 11 but it was also negative. I am confused I don't feel pg like I did last time but my b___sts are very sore, I am very tired, I go to the bathroom more than normal and I only spotted when my period was supposed to come. What do you think? Should I test again or since it is so close to af should I wait. My problem is we are remodeling our house and I paint with alot of primer which you are not supposed to use if you are pg. Any advice? I am starting to spend a fortune of hpt.
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| Dak - September 21 |
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Thanks Annemarie. Sometimes bfn is not a guarantee that you are not preg. I had a bfn blood test but realised after 7 days that I was preg with the preg I lost. I think you should stop using all the things that do not go together with preg and wait for sometime to test. I might have lost my preg because I was given ulcers drugs that are very strong and are not supposed to be taken when preg. Whenever I took them I could feel as if I was dying thats when I went for the preg test. The spoting can be implantantion bleeding so just try to relax and wait to test again. Avoid taking drugs until you know what is going on. Every preg is unique. The signs you were having can not be the same signs you will have this time. I had severe morning sickeness and ulcers but i have seen people who do not fall sick when preg. I am wishing you all the best so that it should be a BFP. Please keep in touch. You are in my prayers.
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| Kay - September 21 |
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Hello ladies, it Kay. I have a question. I noticed that after my mc, my periods have been lighter and shorter. I was wondering if any of you have experienced the same thing after your mc. I just need some info until I can get to my doc.
Talk to you ladies soon.
kay
-mblious@hotmail.com
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Hi ladies. I had my Dr.'s appointment today and the Dr. said it is not normal to have the milky discharge this long after termninating the pregnancy. He thinks I may still have infection after my D&C. I am on really strong anti-biotics and hopefully they will make everything better. I noticed someone else said they had a miscarriage after they had gotten pregnant right after going off the pill. I had gone off the pill and didn't even get a AF, got pregnant right away, then the baby had problems and we terminated the pregnancy. I am wondering if it may be the pill not being completely out of my system that may have caused the defects? I think so, but still waiting for autopsy results on the baby to see what caused it all. Baby dust to all!
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| Kay - September 21 |
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hey Kelly, If the pill did cause a mc you may have a hell of a law suit ahead of you. My prayers to you.
hey see if you can relate to a post I posted just above yours. I need answers ladies
-kay
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Hi again. It was Annemarie's posting that said she had just gone off the pill when she got pg and had her miscarriage. Maybe we're onto something here. As for my AF being lighter, I have only gotten mine the last couple of days, and it is non stop, so I can't help you there. Sorry, Kay, I hope you get answers.
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