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liasongirl - September 5

Okay, question of worry for you. Im not stressing at all over this to make it so, because I know it is VERY possible. Im 23, and yes, I havent had s_x until recently, I know..Im finding my way, haha. But, anyway.. at the end of July my boyfriend and I had s_x on the 28th, 2 days later I got my period, was very light, and lasted 3 days when I usually have it 5 days fully. And usually I dont get it between months like that, its usually the end end or the way beginning or the middle of the month. Well, after that on the LAST day of my period we had s_x yet again, and then a week after that on the 10th. We did use a condom for a second the first time, but then he took it off, but he never let anything get through because we didnt finish fully. He pulled out. I KNOW that pre-c_m has possibilities that can get me pregnant, but is a slim chance. Well, the other two times we had s_x we never used anything at all, but he again used the pull out method. I now havent had my period at all for the month of August. I havent been stressing that much I dont believe, and I guess Im really concerned. As well had only like one symptom of pregnancy which was that of having the early discharge, but nothing really else. Well slight nauseasuness, but not enough to feel pregnant, have been tired more and no soreness but a fullness of my breats somewhat, and that’s about all really. Is it possible to be pregnant, or is it me being tooo curious? Everyone has said to wait a little bit and then test it because could just be stress, but Its just weird for me to not have had my period yet. Thanks so much, and hope someone may be able to help me here.

 

bella24 - September 5

Hi, liasongirl. I didnt have s_x for the first time until I was 23 as well. Sometime the newness of it can throw your cycle off. When exactly are you supposed to start you period? However, from the dates that you posted above it looks like you may have has s_x during your peak ovulation time. Since he pulled out the chances are slim, as you know, but not impossible. I know that for the first several months after I started having s_x my cycles were strange and I dont know, but at times I think that I psyched myself into thinking I was pregnant. I dont know if this helps or not.

 

liasongirl - September 7

Hey again. Thanks for the response and sorry for the delay in mine. It wouldnt let me login here until I tried the shortcut to the site. Anyways.. Well, see when I was younger, I was also raped, so Im sure the getting of my period was just that of my period, not of anything because of the s_x. Though, not saying it wasnt here because of the s_x either, not ruling it out at all. I was suppossed to have gotten it the week of the 28th or after. I am being told it may be good to try and wait and see around the 28th now of Septemeber to see what happens. The last one I got was July 28th to the 1st of August. Is it bad with the peak of ovulation? How can you tell? I was trying to figure things out from calendars and such on ovulation but I dont know my last three periods, but am sure Junes was around the same time. But I dont really get it changed often and NEVER have had it not come at all. Yeah, he pulled out but the second time when we had s_x the c_m got all over the place and even had some landing along my hair and down all over him some. I know what you mean, Im not overly stressed or worried about it. Just very concerned and curious and has got my mind thinking. I dont want to not think yes and not think no either. I am going to have my aunt take me to get a test if I dont end up getting it this month, but it always helps to have other opinions as from yourself just to see what I can from others experiences and whats possible and such ya know? Thank you so VERY much again! I truly appreciate your help!! Ohh, I had a question. I was told pre-c_m is more potent than the normal stuff and that from the first time we had s_x, he could still have had some stuff left along him that never left him and the times after we had s_x it couldve still been there. Is that possible or true?

 

socurbaby7 - September 9

hey, i think since you have missed a period why not get a pregnancy text and find out now... what's the harm? you will either be preggo or not but its better to know sooner than later... and having s_x during your peak ovulation time means that it is the time you can get pregnant... there is a window of about a week a woman can get pregnant... and the egg is released on a certain day and it will be in the proper area for fertilization for only a short period of time, as for the sperm they can stay alive inside of you for 24 hours... so there is about a week span that you can potentially get pregnant in, and you happen to fall into that category, so you might as well take a preg test and find out asap.... theres no reason to wait...

 

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