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My son is now 13 weeks old. I wanted s_x all through my pregnacy, except for about a month when I felt sick. My hubby did too and before I got pregnant. Since I had my son, my interest came back at about 4 weeks but my hubby's didn't. He still won't give me s_x. He says that he just doesn't have the desire. But he just beats around the bush about the subject and won't give me a straight answer. Anyone else have this problem? This is really bugging me and effecting our closeness.
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If I were you I'd approach this topic lightly, he may be weirded out since the birth...its ALOT for a man to take in, my husband had problems seeing the graphic flashbacks in his head, the blood the squirts of fluid its almost like a horror film to them lol despite how beuatiful we think it is, we aren't on the other end lol! Also it's very very common for a new parent to be tired, comon its a very tough new 24/7 job, he is treading in uncharted waters and it may stress him out a little... so If I were you I'd plan a date night just the two of you let baby go with grandma for the NIGHT dress yourself up real nice and go out together. If afterwards when all is said and done and you guys get home and he still has a problem you have to deal with it further....BUT lets cross that bridge when you get to it:) Good luck!
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