Im Only 14 And Im Pregnate

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anon - February 2

i admire your courage, I got pregnant when i was 19, and was so afraid of the consequences that i had an abortion even though i had always been against it. So for you to accept responsibility for your actions perhaps makes you more mature than those of us who opt out. just make sure you know what it takes to raise child read lots adout babies and how to care for them because it is hard work. now that i have had a child I realise how ignorrant i was at 19

 

monica - February 3

if you feel you can do this finish school and be a great mother to your baby,go for it girl.just keep in mind that its a full time responabilty.

 

me - February 4

i am 14 too, and if i got pregnate now i could never have an abortion but its up to you!

 

Tori - February 5

I think it is great if you want to keep the baby, and take All the responsibility for it, but don't count on your boyfriend always being there, because that usually doesn't work out.

 

Robin - February 9

well, first of all how old is you'r boyfriend? and yes they can, but i highly doubt they will, becuase im 15 and i think im pregnate.. if you ever want to talk im here for you..

 

QUITA - February 13

I THINK YOUR RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING YOUR OWN DICISSONS. I HAVE A FRIEND THATS GOING THROUGH THAT KNOW. I THINK ITS UP TO YOU AND YOUR BOY FRIEND.

 

Lindsey - February 14

I am 16 and 33 weeks pregnant and at first my dad said that I had to give it up but then he found out that he couldn't but it depends on the state law but if you do plan on keeping your baby then please make sure that you are going to be able to take care of it.

 

Lindsey - February 14

don't listen to anyone who tells you to have an abortion that is murder.... Studies show that life begins 3 hours after the sperm and egg unite. There are othere options

 

Danielle - February 15

I think that you parents can make u give up your baby if your only 14 because your not old enough to make your own decisions you still have you whole life a head of you. I know from experience having a baby at 14 takes your whole life away from you. I got pregnant with my lil' girl at age 15 and now she is 1. and i figure by the time im 20 she will be 4 or 5 and 20 is really young to have a 5 year old but it was the risk i took when i chose to become s_xually active. and your boyfriend may not always be there for u he may decide one day that he doesnt want a baby. Thats the same thing my baby's daddy did. He wanted a child until the day she turned a month old and then he left me. So, your parents can make u give up your baby, even though u want to keep it. Its not a good thing u still have to finish school and i am struggling with finishing school now its not easy to be a teenage mom. Well there is my opinion u can email me if u wanna talk..... redneckbaby16@hotmail.com, im here all the time so emai me sometime... Danielle If u wanna keep that baby ask your self this am i financially stable?

 

ruby - February 17

girl dont give your baby your gonna go through all that pain y give it out 4 adoption

 

Jacob - February 18

abortion is not right it is your choice I belive it is murder there are different ways to go but dont turst your boyfriend if something were to go wrong and he leaves then you are on your own do what is best for you and the baby

 

??? - February 19

Im 13. My friend is the same age, and she is pregnant... i no what your going through. I have read all of the answers and i think some of the people who have wrote stuff are being very inconciderate !!! there is a few sides to this, give the baby up for adoption, it could have a great life, and find you when its old enough. My mum had me when she was 16, iv got a great life, well pretty good anyway. but belive me ... you are wasting half of your life, you wont be able to go out evry week end, and it will be really hard to finish school, and it is really easy to make the mistake of having s_x !!! Im going through this with my m8 but she hasnt told anyone but me, im in a sticky situation??? xXx

 

someone - February 21

you should do what's best for the baby. if u choose to keep the baby, then you should make sure that you can support him or her and that he or she grows up in a safe, loving and well supported home. although, if u choose to do adoption, make sure that whoever adopts the baby is loving, careing and well supported. although, i would keep the baby because i would never let my baby go live with someone else or put him or her up for adoption. if u did the mistake to get pregnant at the age of 14, then this time try your hardest to forget about it and next time think things through. try talking to your parents or other family members or REALLY GOOD friends if they can help you support the baby. although DO NOT depend on someone else. whatever happens, i wish you and your baby the best of luck.

 

unknown - February 21

I have been trying to have a baby since I was 13 years old. Now I am 18 and 15 weeks pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. My parents took it better than I expected. If it is something that you want to do, go for it. There will always be a way made if it is ment to be made. GOOD LUCK

 

nadine - February 23

i want to have a baby and i am only 14 i have been with my boyfriend 3 years now what shall a do?

 

jenni - February 26

im pregnate by a 20 yr old wut do i do?

 

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