Im Only 14 And Im Pregnate

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Briana - March 22

no my mom would not make he give my baby up she would take care of it and i would to.

 

Teara - March 23

No, they cant make u give it up its your decision also its if you really want to have it and if your parents still let you stay living with them.But they cant make u give it up cause there not the child mother

 

true - March 23

keep your baby age has nothing to do with it it WILL be harder but you can do it im only 17 with a baby and i know younger moms that have been very successful keep your head up and good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

to "think before you act" - March 24

I think you need to think before you speak. She may not have made the wisest decisions, but she doesn't need someone as obviously ignorant as you to judge her. I know many girls who had children between the ages of 14 and 16, and none of them had to drop out of school, and they acutally did have social lives as well. In fact, one was even valedictorian - how's that for a baby ruining your life? To unknown - you need to contact an attorney. A lawyer is the only one who will know the laws of your state, and will know how to help you best. After you speak with an attorney, then you should speak to your parents, and let them help you decide the best course of action. They may even be willing to adopt your baby, which would allow you to love/care for it, and still allow you to be young.

 

mlc - March 26

no matter how old you are, you also have the right to ur own actions, if want to keep the baby, keep the baby its ur body and no body can take your resposibilty from you because only you can make your own descion. No matter how old you are your dealing with your problem and no one else....Best Of Luck!!

 

Diana - April 1

no i belive everyone has their own desions on weather they keep the baby or not. its ur kid.

 

Dohleah - April 13

Gurl im 14 and i thought i was pregnate,and i can asure you,they cannot make you give it up!!!!tell them that you will fight for your child to the end.Dont listen to what people say about your age it is nuthin but a # sweetie.

 

Jen - April 13

You can't be a good mom at 14 and you can't do it alone. I think adoption is the best thing.

 

Shanni - April 14

I understand that you may wish to keep your baby, but you have to understand that this is full time resposability, you ahve this child for life and you being only 14, how are going to feed this child and put a roof over this childs head? you wont have an education to get a good paying job if you keep this child! i ahd a child at 16 and i dont regret it but i wish i had of waited a bit longer to have her, im not 21 and trying to get by on a woolworths salary, as there the only people that will hire me, as i didnt finish school!my advise for you is to finish school and get an education and money behind you before you think about having a child!!

 

Cristal - April 16

what are signs

 

k-fizzle - May 9

im 14 and my baby is 2 months old and i am very happy with her and i can keep the time and effort to support her so i say just keep the baby and enjoy life

 

THE REAL ANSWER - May 12

NO SWEETIE THEY CANT LOTS OF TEENS GO THOUGH THIS. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL NOW AND DAYS YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND SEEM TO HAVE FIXED YOUR MISTAKES. U GUYS WILL BE FINE. THEY DONT NEED TO PUT STRESS ON THE BABY, BUT THEY DONT SEEM TO CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN GRANDCHILD. YOU ARE NO LONGER A CHILD KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND DONT LISTEN TO NEGATIVES. OKAY SWEETIE BEST OF LUCK.

 

Odessa - May 13

Hello, I come from a place where by time I was even close to graduating high school all the girl were pregnant or already had kids. Thats no lie!! Me I was 17 when I had my baby and I've learned from all the girls around me its hard. They may be cute and loveable but they have a whole lot more to them than that. I'm 20 yrs old now and have a wonderful baby boy ..well big boy. And his father stuck around and we just got married last may. He joined the military to support his family. But i got really lucky, and when I say that I mean it. All of my friends and the girls they knew that were pregnant.. 85% of them dont have the father for their babies. Its hard to raise them on your own , and go to school and think about your own future when you have someone elses to worry about to. Honey if your gonna do this you need to be prepared. You gotta get yourself mentally ready for the emotional rollercoaster, and the body changes and the fact that your man may not be there in the end. It may not be that he doesnt care for you but that its a lot for a lil boy to handle and since your the one that carries the baby your the one that has it and cares for it. Explore your options and take care of yourself. Never live for that guy of your or what others think of. This is your body your child and your decision.

 

a bit more sensible - May 26

r u nuts?? A baby at 14?? u urself are a baby.........dont even think about it if u have a lil bit of shame

 

don't know - May 26

I want know if there in way that a gurl can find out if shes pregnate without her parents knowing

 

Patricia - May 27

Keep having s_x with him and egnore what your parents say it's not there life it's your's. Tell them they can't control you anymore. Tell them they can't live their lives through you.

 

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