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So, here's the thing. my husband and i havent been having s_x more than maybe once a week and that is if i throw a fit and refuse to talk to him (childish i know). we used to have s_x a lot before i got pregnant. like 3 times a day a lot and then it slowed a little when we found out i was pregnant. and now that i am in my third trimester it may as well have stopped completely. i keep asking him what is wrong and he just keeps telling me he is tired or he expects me to do everything for him to make him happy. i know he isnt cheating because he doesnt have the time or the means to meet anyone. and he knows that i would kill him.
he's very excited to be a dad. and we rarely fight. lately it has been about s_x. and he just doesnt get that so many people have called me fat and have been really mean to me that him making even the least bit of effort to show that i am even attractive to him a little would make everything sooo much better.
what do i do?
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In its own way, the pregnant body is attractive. He is probably worried that s_x will do some damage. Instead of asking for intercourse, why not start with having him lotion your belly, then ask for some creative finger-work. After a bit you can transition to on-top outercourse, which will do things to make him happy. Innercourse can follow if he is up to it!
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