I Need Help Pleassse Im Desperate
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Hii, Umm i need some help from people who have been pregnant before...I'm 19 years old. and i had unprotected s_x with my friend. Well, When we were finished..i was wetter than usual. because a couple of nights before me and him had unprotected s_x but i wasnt wet and he came on my stomach. But the second time i was soaked. after we were done he asked me if i wanted kids someday. and of course i said yes. I found this really odd/strange after i had got up to clean myself up and i seen that i was dripping) then he had told me that he got his ex girlfriend pregnant before and she had gotten an abortion without him knowing and he found out three years later. he also included that i shouldnt do anything behind his back...i found that strange also..well its been almost 5 or 6 days since we had s_x and I'm now experiencing some signs of pregnancy..i think. I had been having some mild cramps before i had s_x with him. I dont know what that means. My br___ts hurt..really bad and i noticed a little bit of spotting in my pantiliner and its hard to tell if ive missed my period because my periods can be sooo irregular a lot of the time. I'm still having mild cramps. i dont know what to do because im on several diffent medications for some mental disorders. I suffer from depression, bipolar, anxiety, insomnia, and also self mutilation disorder. I've stopped taking my medications because my doctor said that if ive ever become pregnant then my medications could harm the baby and that when i give birth to my baby then it could most likely come out deformed or with several other physical or even mental issues. I need some help ! i dont know if im actually pregnant or if im just paranoid!!
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Any advice is helpful actually !
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and my period was supposed to be already....i think!!
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Mayay, your anxiety is showing. The best sense I can make of your story is that wet episode was a combination of his s____n and your fertile mucus, and maybe more. His questions about wanting kids had to do with trying to get you pregnant (no condom). The mild cramps before would have been ovulation cramps. Now you have more cramps and spotting, which could both be implantation. If this is true, your period is not due until June 16th, and you will begin to feel other early pregnancy signs next week. You are in the two week wait. Hold tight, and test when late or light using frist morning pee. GL!
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Ughhh. There was no condom used and i havent been on birth control in over 2 years. Whats the chances?? If im feeling early pregnancy signs next week, does that mean im pregnant!?
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And if im reaading correctly...you said he was trying to get me pregnant?
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If you are feeling early signs this next week, you could be psyching yourself or you could be getting pregnant. Only a positive test will tell. One conception in three does not stick. I say he was trying to get you pregnant because he is upset about that earlier abortion, he uses no condom or even pullout, and he says "don't do anything behind my back" - i.e. don't go getting an abortion yourself. GL!
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