Keep My Promise Or Keep The Baby

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mandabee2009 - December 1

I am 18 yrs old and I recently found out I was pregnant. Me and the father were separated, but got back together. He really wanted me to do abortion because of the "attachment" issue that I could have. I promised him, however, that he had nothing to worry about because I would put the baby up for adoption. But lately, I've been feeling like it would be worth it to keep the baby. I would give it the world, work my butt off, and my family is very supportive of any decison so I know they would have my back. I'm worried that I cant go back on my promise to him. What should I do?

 

Grandpa Viv - December 1

Putting a baby up for adoption after carrying it for 9 months is rare, even though it seems like a win-win-win decision. The attachment thing is very strong. If you and your family want to keep the baby, go right ahead, even if it means the father will do a disappearing act. Your promise was made under duress, and is not binding. GL!

 

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