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So I'm more than likely pregnant. I'm not going to release my age but my boyfriend and I haven't exactly been being careful. I missed my period last month, I think I'm going to miss it again this month, and the month before last it was only a few days and not as heavy. I'm cramping like I would be having my period but I have no other signs of my period, other then being bloated. I'm nauseas. I'm starting two have a little bit of stomach cramps on one side which just started today. I want this baby actually, but I'm nervous to tell my mom, or take a pregnancy test. I'm going with my bestfriend to buy a pregnancy test soon.
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It is not likely that you are several months pregnant with no more of a story to tell than this. One possibility is that you have cysts which are messing with your cycle. Another is that you got pregnant more recently. Take the pregnancy test this weekend using first morning pee. If it is positive, scream, faint, and when you come to ask your mom if this thing really means what it says (cold turkey method). GL!
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Moodle-At 18 I had a very similar story and was quite scared to admit that I was having pregnancy symptoms. At nearly 4 months along I finally talked to my mom and we went in for my first check up. I had yet to confirm my pregnancy but I "knew" somewhere inside me that I was carrying a child.
I recommend that you tell your mother right away and have her take you to your doctor. They can test your levels and decide if you are pregnant and approximately how far along you are. If you are going to be a mother, you need to learn to talk about these things openly with your family, friends and even complete strangers (when you get those questions in public).
Good luck and PLEASE talk to your mother. I was there and I know that it's the best thing to do. She is there to help. As a mother (had my first at 18) of a 9 year old little girl, I would want her to come to me right away. Your health and the baby are more important than being scared or getting in trouble with your parents.
Keep us updated.
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Grandpa Viv, I never said I was several months a long.
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Moodle, I was focusing on the fact that you have not had a regular period in some months. How did the pregnancy test turn out?
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I haven't been on in forever, I haven't had a computer.
But he's a run down.
I took a test, then considered taking like 7 more.
Called my sister, who lives out of state and talked to her.
Told my mom.
Who told my step dad.
They took it surprisingly well, and are setting me up an appointment.
The dad and I broke up, but are back together.
His family is kind of excited, his sister's due in May, so they get two babies within a few months, cousins!
Otherwise I'm fine.
My work just found out yesterday.
So working today should be interesting.
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I meant here's a run down.
Lack of sleep is effecting my typing I guess.
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Congratulations, Moodle! I guess the test was positive and you were thinking of taking 7 more to get one to come out negative. Hah! Let us know how far along you are when you come back from your appointment. GL!
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I haven't even gotten into the doctor yet.
Everything takes so long.
The Health Department says that I'm probably 10 weeks and a few days.
But I have to wait for the pelvic exam, which may not be till March!
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So you missed your Jan 15th period, missed Dec 18th, and Nov 20th was light. I am hearing that your last convincing period was Oct 22nd, which would give a due date at the end of July! Let us know the doctor's verdict.
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