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lol ashley so people who have kids and think its easy need a wake up call! lol how does that happen. and acyually there are many children who have crack heads and herion addicts as paerents. so they obviously can do cant they! im not saying very well but they still do. all i have to say to all og those who find it hard your bad but not all do deal with it. aylarose and esperanza rose im glad your borh excited and i know exactly what you mean about having the support of a partner i love that i have someone here for me 24/7 i couldnt go through it without him.....thoses people that are single parents well i see why thye may find it hard but i think i,d crack lol. i cant wait until are baby comes along and i have my partner there with me 24/7 (he does a home computor course) we will be able to share every single moment together which i think will make it alot easier than him being at work or not living with me ect good luck girlies...haha lol V i totally do have pregnancy brain! i say something thne forget what im saying then think i remember but i dont quite lol, which is why half the people on this post dont understand what half the stuff is going on about and why it has turned in to fighting because they dotn read all the way through! which is why i think people are thinking im saying " parenting is really easy" to all of thoses who think thats the message well just go away.

Parenting is great and I love it and PFFT to everyone who doesn't agree ;)

angel-- you just said you had pregnancy brain and you forget what your saying, we all read the posts but how are we suppose to understand your "pregnancy" brain?? we are suppose to read a paragraph of you babbling on about something and understand it when you yourself forgot half wasy through what you where even typing about :S odd.. and YES i think they do need a wake up call :D but hey this is my opinion and i'll stick to it :P

angelmonkey~ i have pregnancy brain too! i like to call it mushy brain though because i feel very scattered and unfocused. it's a silly feeling.. and i have another question... does anyone ever have doubts when they are pregnant about having the baby? i know this may be horrible to ask, but to make a long story short, i had a horrible dream and i began to have doubts about being pregnant and having a child. it made me feel so sad and guilty inside.. but i can't deny that i'm feeling this way.. any other moms to be who feel this way?

I have doubts about whether or not to keep the baby! I have them quite a bit! Especially when my boyfriend left 2 days after i found out i was pregnant.. he left to visit family! I had so many doubts and I felt unwanted by him! I didnt know what to do about it! I told him about the feelings! He was very good about it! He told me it was my choice, Whatever that choice is he would have supported me! We are keeping the baby *btw*! I couldnt be happier now.. I thought he would leave and I still think that but if he is then, i just let him go!

ashley lol..............1. just because i have pregnancy brain it doesnt mean you say stuff you dont agree with with! like i never said "having a child is easy" 2. how can you give soemone a wake up call because they dont have the same opinion as you! so waht your saying is a if a 30 year old with her 3rd baby says "i,ve never found parenting difficult thats just mu opinion i have a loving husband to help me and i,ve never found it difficult" you would turn around and say you need a wake up call! well let me tell you you woiuld look a bit stupid saying that lol, and yes its your opinion that you find parenting hard, just deal with the fact not everyone is you. it depends how you look at it, like for instance you may find getting up 5times a night every night difficult! some dotn! or your child throwing a tantrum you may find it difficult to deal with, others dont. i mean soem people find just there baby baby crying difficult! most dont! it depends how much you dwell on things or wether you just get on with it! esperanza and alyarose dont feel bad! at the beging of pregnancy you have all sorts of emotions that make you feel like that, i know i had a few doubys at the beggening and this baby was planned! its only now i have a bump and can feel it that i have a bond with it. your feelings are normal

No having doubts is normal. I ttc for 3 years and still had doubts about my pregnancy at first. I had nothing to worry about yet I found something to worry about. Like the thought "what if my baby doesnt like me?" or what if my dogs have to go, or what if she cries all the time and I freak out. But I had bad anxiety from the hormones so that's why I had so many negative thoughts. Angelmonkey I thought you were gonna let this go? You dont think parenting will be easy right? But you dont think it'll be hard or difficult, whatever word you want to use. What does that leave? Doesnt make sense to me. But whatever.

I have had anxiety way before i found out i was pregnant. It just makes things a little harder but nothing i cant handle! I have doubts all the time and it gets on my nerves

I think those feelings and thoughts are normal, because I mean come on and admit it-when you thought you might get pregnant or thought you might be, you were stressed, but there was like this whole other feeling like disbelief at the reality of YOU being PREGNANT AHHH! Like is that possible? Then every step makes it even more real-hearing the heart beat, feeling the first kick, then suddenly realizing that you could pop any day and OMG can you do this. I really think it's natural. Hell I wanted to change my mind when I hit 34 weeks and realized that I will have to take care and be responsible for a fragile littlle hollering life. Sometimes these thoughts manifest themselves in your dream, but it is normal and it is just a natural fear of whether or not you will make a good mother, whether the child will be happy with the situation you have created for them to come in to, it's like a real reality check.

amanda19 you dont have to understand it, its my life. aylarose you,l be fine, you wouldnt be human if you didnt have those thoughts

What the heck are you talking about angelmonkey? Did I say it wasnt your life? Just saying your posts dont make sense.

" amanda19" "Angelmonkey I thought you were gonna let this go? You dont think parenting will be easy right? But you dont think it'll be hard or difficult, whatever word you want to use. What does that leave? Doesnt make sense to me. But whatever." im saying it doesnt have to make sence to you! its none of your buissness its not your life so dont even try to understand it! thats what the "heck" im on about!

Angelmonkey: it makes perfect sense to me! I get what you are saying and what you are saying is fine! Its your opinion and I accept that! We all have views on things that may be different! You may say boys are easier, someone else may say girls are easier! Its an opinion and we hear them out! See why they think that and let it go. Its really hard to come on here and voice what you think, because i dont want to start anything, thats not the intention at all!!!! I am just stating my opinion and what i think! Do you have to agree, no and thats ok if you dont!

alayrose i totally see your points, i think its just a bit sad when people dont voice there opinion back they tell you " no you are wrong" when in fact i dont see that i am. how can my opinion be wrong. its not.end of for me! haha my mum says boys are eaiser apparently i was always throwing tantrums and my brothers didnt, i used to fall out with friends and be all b___hy wherea as my brothers just fought and then made up lol. i always hear that boys are calmer than boys but who knows?? thanks alyarose

lmao. You still make absolutely no sense. I KNOW it's your life. You come on here with your opinion, I come on here with mine. But if your's makes no sense I'm gonna say something. I quit though. Doesnt matter to me.

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