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Thank you all for your concern. I asked my mom to pick up the Plan B pill for me, and she did. My period is due around the 5th, so we'll see what happens. I'm doing fine, I'm really not all that upset about it. I feel like everyone is more outraged by the whole thing than I am. These things happen. I'm not going to waste my time feeling sorry for myself and neither should anyone else. I refused to be depressed or angered by this event at all... I didn't do anything wrong so I don't deserve to feel c__ppy. Everyone is pampering me like I was just wounded in battle, my mom won't even let me get out of bed. I can walk, I have legs, they work fine. My grandma is taking care of Ellie and I'm really not happy about it. I can take care of her just fine, I have been for the past 12 weeks, and will continue to do for the rest of my life. A pervert and a few bruises are certainly not going to hold me back from doing that. I know everyone has good intentions but I just want to forget about it, get back into my routine and enjoy my life. My 18th birthday is in 9 days, I've been really looking forward to it, but now I know everyone is going to throw me a huge pity party instead of letting me celebrate. Life is way too short, and way too beautiful to let the ugly things like that cloud your vision and keep you from your happiness.
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Are you going to change your user name? Or is that possible? Lol.
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Oh hahaha it took me forever to get what you were saying. Nahhh I'm Amanda17 for LIFE haha
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I am glad you are staying positive about this whole situation...but at the same time, maybe you should consider some counseling just to make sure that you are healing emotionally. It can be easy to push this nasty incident to the back of your mind...but it might manifest itself in different ways later. Just take care of yourself hun!
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Ha, thats great. So if you stay here for 8 years like DB, you're going to be talking about your 8 year old. People are gonna be like "you're 17 with an 8 year old? What a whore!". Lol.
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amanda- i admire you for being strong, goodluck i hope they get the guy and he gets the punishment he deserves! im not going to tell you to get help cuz you clearly dont want to :D some people are twisted and i think its good that you know its not your fault !!
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Thanks Ashley. One of the police officers a__sured me he would not get away and not get off easy. I had enough proof to put him away, and on top of that they found him with illegal drugs, under the influence, and had several warrants for his arrest. He'll be gone for a long while.
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that is great to hear! its so hard to hear when someone goes through that, you wanna ask questions you wanna know exactly waht happened lol, but its awsome to hear that you are doing okay, hopefully the family will calm down and things can return to normal.. and Harold wnating to kill the guys is sooo understandable, you have an awsome man :D
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He is pretty nifty if I do say so myself. He's not usually one to get worked up about things though... He's very calm and understanding. He's only ever been like this a few times, and it's only ever when someone hurts me. It's almost like he's a totally different person. He's at school right now and he called me in the middle of cla__s.... He was like "Are you okay? Is everything fine? Do you need me to go over there? Have the police talked to you at all? Do you need anything at all? Ice pack? Back rub? Chocolate? A teddy bear? A hug?!" Chillax bro. :P
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Amanda I know you dont want a pity party but I just read up on all of it. I didnt notice your post before. So i did want to tell you I am sorry that that happend to you.....again! and i am very glad to hear that you handled it the correct way. Alot of girls dont because they are afraid. You are a very strong girl and you should be so proud of yourself. I can guareentee that you wouldnt be as strong as you are about it now if you didnt handle it the way you did. Great jub hun! ::::hugs:::: But I do have one little question that made me curious? Did you know the guy or was it just someone random?
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You have so much more courage and power than I do. Gah, I kinda admire you!! I don't feel like getting into it but I'm definitely not as strong as you are lol. I let things that aren't nearly as bad as what's happened to you still effect me sometimes. You're really strong and you should be proud of yourself.
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Thanks everyone :) DB- No I hadn't ever seen him before that. He came to my house looking for my brother.
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okay sorry for asking my curiosity got the best of me but I am very happy you are okay =)
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It's alright, I'm surprised you're the only one who asked me anything haha. I'd probably be curious too.
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You literally tell the world you were raped and then tell people not to ask you about it!!?!?? And then you go ahead and tell people what happened?!?! Dear, you do need help, this is not normal, really its not. You have an unhealthy need to disclose your entire personal life on the web...Besides being just strange, it isn't safe to expose yourself even more! You have a loving and supportive family network, what the heck are you doing here???
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You should let her be, so what if she does this after a traumatic experience, it probably helps her. Ease off.
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you DO have an unheatlhy compulsion to put everything out there. I think you do need serious intervention. NObody gets raped and then on first instinct pops on the internet forum states they've been raped, doesn't want to talk about it (but does). I think you are either making this up for attention, becasue you're run out of things to talk about that will give you attention, or you really are that sad and have no friends in real life. Rape is a serious matter - it's not something someone could possibly be so frivulous about and laugh it off and continue with your day to day business like nothing happened. I think you need help and you need to get back on your meds.
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