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i just wanted to inform people on herer writing back and forth to others. everyone is not perfect and things do happen that arent planned. i know sometimes i disagree with what others write or believe. but you gotta think about these teens that are going through hard times and need advice and some people are here talkin down to them.
and people wonder why things happen that shouldnt (aka caylee anthony case, and others hurting their own) just because someone tells them something negitive.
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What does a woman murdering her 3 year old daughter have to do with ppl telling dumb teenagers like it is? Very tragic, but i dont see how it pertains to this forum.
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ok like i am saying you call them dumb and i read so things that other say to teenagers. if a teen is preg dont down grade them just them help that they are up here for. alot of peolpe talk down to real life sitation.
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duh a 14 year old saying i wanna get preg is dumb. i dont agree with it. but some things arent planned to teenagers and it really does happen. and that way people talk i would consider it bullying them when their looking for advice. if that is how you live your life down grading people looking for help and advice, (notice i did say only help and advice) then you live it. but i clicked on the teen forum to help others being an older person. have a great cold-hearted life...
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Where are we bullying someone who got pregnant on accident...? Maybe if she wasn't using any kind of birth control or taking any steps to prevent pregnancy... We're never mean without reason. If you are referring to what I said to rainbow on the other thread... I wasn't being mean or bullying her. Over a year ago I was in the same position as her. I was just telling her it is something to worry about... it's not all glamorous and fun, there are going to be hard times.
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well then that makes most on here dumb! especially you amanda! how old were you when you fiest got pregnant?
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Okay.....I'm gonna point out that Casey Anthony probably didn't kill her daughter because people told her negitive things about having kids, she probably did it because she was too self-centered to take care of her child. As for talking down on teens, I agree, if a teen is already pregnant and looking for advice there's no reason to talk down on them as for teen trying to get pregnant that's a whole other story and trying to get pregnant when you don't have your own place, job and not even able to drive a d__n car is just stupid. I'm 25 and had my son at 23 and even at that age is hard as hell to raise a baby. what the teens don't see when they are trying to get pregnant is past the "baby stage" they do become toddlers you know......and toddlerhood is not a pretty sight a lot of times, they'll kick, scream, hit, spit, tell you no and so on, I know because of course my son is about to turn two next month and he does it all and there isn't a such thing as a "perfect child" where none of that happens and teens don't have much patience to deal with a baby and much less a toddler. I'm not talking down on anyone, I'm telling the truth, if you're pregnant then yes you need to seek help, take some cla__ses on how to take care of your child, etc....... if you're under 18 and not pregnant already, no job, no house, no car, then keep your legs close........btw, mommy and daddy's car, house and money doesn't count, make your own, they raised you and they shouldn't have to raise their grandchildren too. grandparents are meant to enjoy the child not have to raise it......I know there will be times that you'll need someone to watch them to get things done but for heavens sake don't make them have to raise them while you are out partying once you get a little older, that's the whole point of waiting to have a baby at a older age is to get all the party animal out of ya before you get strapped down with a child.
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