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So, im gonna be 17 weeks tmr, I don't really know what to expect so any information you can give me would be great, my boyfriend gets out of training school in february, im due in may...im having some second thoughts about everything, idk if I should break up w. Him or what, we've been together for two years and I love him to death, but all of this is rlly hard to deal with.
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Why would your break up with him?
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what would be the point of breaking up with him? you would lose ur boyfriend of 2 years and the father of your baby. youre pregnant and youre emotional, of course youre going through a lot, its no reason to break up with him unless hes abusive or mean to you.
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also...im new to this website i went to it because i think i might be pregnant but yeahhh...i dont know how to start a thread i dont see a start thread b___ton kind of thingy...can someone help me? lol
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well unless there is something else you arent telling us you shouldnt break up with him, when you are pregnant you are hormonal and its hard weve all been there and i must have thought about dumping my boyfriend three times a day for stupid things like not being able to tell me where the dog leash was, take a few breaths and work through it.
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You are hormonal. Don't do anything drastic. It's quite obvious that you are being irrational because you gave no evidence why you would break up with him. If you said "I don't think he's going to be a good father" or "he doesn't treat me well" then those would be good reasons to break up with someone. But you said "I love him to death, should I break up with him?" You also said that all of this is really hard to deal with... so naturally you'd want to break up with your boyfriend so you can deal with having a child all on your own, right? Hormones tend to cloud your thoughts. Before you make any huge decisions, or start screaming and crying over boiled water, step outside yourself and look at the situation. Is breaking up with him *really* what you want to do?
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Don't do anything you might regret. WHen you are pregnant your hormones are raging. Just get all the support you can and do your best honey. Oh and cry when you need to, and be honest about your feelings.
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