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I think since you are only 13, you should not go through with the Pregnancy. After all you will be reminded of that guy whenever you look at your child. I am sure you will be able to take care of your baby, but wouldnt you rather have a child with someone you truely care about? I have had an abortion and a m/c. Neither one was easy for me. So i can understand where you are coming from. I really think you should sit down by yourself and write the pros and cons down about having this baby. Does your b/f know you were raped? I think you should let him know if you havent already. I definitly think you should continue school. You have the rest of your life to have children. Children should be conceived in love, not how yours was. Also, imagine when your child says "mommy whos my real daddy?" what are you going to say? It is a really tough choice. Sit down and think it out. But, above all, let it be your decision, not someone elses.

When you get an abortion all you feel is empty inside, they are nasty things. If you dont want to keep the baby, then have you considered giving it up for adoption?, there are so many people out there who cant have kids that would love to adopt you baby even b4 it is born, good luck, you have a hard road ahead of you.

That was horrible what happened to you. Your decision to have the baby takes great courage. I think that you should accept all the support you can get. I also think that you should keep going to school for yourself. It will keep you sane and somewhat in control of your future. Just keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. You have shown that you are a strong girl, so keep believing in yourself.

WHERE THE HELL IS KELLYANN??? ITS LIKE FINDING WALDO!

hey, im sorry about what happened to you, but im sorry to say but in some states since your a minor your parents really have the say in what you do, because of your age. Ya i know it sucks. BUT if she doesnt persue you getting an abortion and she lets you choose your own path, and you have this baby more power to you. Just remember its gunna be hard. Im 18 and im due 9/23 and im still in school, but you have to make sure you have someone to take care of that baby when your in school. An please make sure your BF is always goin to be there for you.

Well, you are 13 and though you may physically be ready to have a child, you are mentally not. I mean I wouldn't attempt to raise a kid before you can even legally drive. A boy that is under the age of 15, well he's too young to be a Father. Go to school, just contact an adoption agency and work it out.

I am truly sorry that s_xual relations were forced upon you. Have you contacted the authorities? If you havent, do so immediately. Rape is a federal crime and perpatrators and violators will be prosecuted law. Do not drop out of school, contact you the nearist support groups and councilors. Good luck.

Has anyone noticed lately that this thread was started a YEAR ago?

get the abortion your far to young to handle this tek my advice jus get the abortion it must hav been very scary to be raped but as for your bf tell him straight NO ur 13 ok not 25 so unless you want a life of endless name calling in the street an changeing nappies GET THE ABORTION!

Honey I know what your going through I had the same thing happen to me at the same age and I had a abortion and I regrate it with every bit of me and now I might be pregnent with my second baby and I am really happy I get a second chance at being a mom but DO NOT GET A ABORTION YOU WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOUR SELF put your baby up for adoption if necessary but don't have a abortion.

no many men wanna be dads at the age 13 i think that maybe you should consider apotion or have the baby and see how it goes if you cant make it then look into adoption

This thread is a year old...she's already had a baby or an abortion by now...save your advice for the ones who need it now

If this is indeed a true story, then you should consider open adoption. You've no means of financially taking care of a child right now, and it's definitely not fair to have mommy and daddy take care of it for you. With open adoption you could at least keep in touch with the adoptive family and still see the child. Whatever you do, do not quit school. If you do that you're setting yourself up for failure.

Hey sweety, ok first of all I'am very sorry about what you are going through. Since your mother seemed so understanding and she knows about it, i strongly reccomend you keep the baby. If your bf actully wants to help you raise the baby then what are you scared of. Even if your bf doesnt stick to what he said and leaves you, that means that special someone is still out there. If you dont want to have the baby because your scared of the pain. Let me just tell you abortian hurts more, plus abortian can cause serious health problems. I understand exactly what your going through because well i was in the same situation as you but i decided to keep my baby and after many hard work, I have the most beautiful 6 year old baby girl, her name is Tatiana. I can't even imagine my life without her. I did not have any one help me when i was in need, but at least you have you mother. Hopefully she will accept your decision and will help you out by watching her while you go to school. If not, do what i did, I dropped out of school, got a part time job and asked some friends and family to watch her for me, then now since shes a little grown up, i went back to school and am hopping to be a pharmacist...good luck..even though it tough..there was a reason for all this..much love to you sweetie..much love!! PLease write back with your decision!!!

SHE WOULD HAVE HAD THE BABY BY NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope you got the cops involved in this because rape is a serious offence.Yes you should keep going to school,you would really regret not going because now you need a high school diploma for certain jobs.Just do the best you can to go to school and if you really don't feel like going that day,I think your teachers would understand.