My Mom Doesnt Know Im Pregnant How Do I Tell Her

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Grandpa Viv - January 20

So sorry, Natty! If you got one clear positive inside the time limit, chances are it is telling true. Maybe you took the other after drinking liquids, and your urine was more dilute. What other early pregnancy signs do you have?? Just to be sure, wait a few days and test again - the hormone should double in that time. Use first morning pee, which is strongest. When did this incident occur, and when did you come up missing a period?

 

NattyLuna - January 20

okay so i had s_x about 3 weeks ago... and my period isnt here yet... i usually have it this week but it's late.... feel crampy and moody right now and my b___bs hurt.... it doesnt usually feel like this when im on my period, i usually dont feel any pain at all. is this good or bad?

 

Grandpa Viv - January 20

I'm guessing your period was due Tuesday 18th and you had s_x New Year. You would have ovulated Jan 4th and started feeling the first early signs Jan 10th -ish. Does this all compute? Good exposure, late, weird cramps, b___bs hurt, unusually emotional, and a possible positive test make it very likely you are pregnant. Other signs might include lightheaded moments, appet_te and fav food changes, fatigued but can't sleep well, vivid dreams, peeing more, lotion discharge, stuffy nose, lower backache, veins showing more, diarrhea, heartburn, constipation, ga__sy, short of breath when exercising, sensitive to smells etc. Take another test this weekend using first morning pee, dip method. If you want more support, my email is on my profile. Good luck!

 

NattyLuna - January 22

those dates sound about right... but what do you mean by "lotion discharge"? at school during P.E. im more out of breath than usual, when i used to run very fast for long distances, and i have to stop more often (which is bad, considering he's a really tough teacher... my friend also said that i might have asthma cause of my breathing, She has asthma too so...yeah). im just not sure what the right way is to tell my dad...

 

Grandpa Viv - January 23

Many women get an unaccustmed discharge as a sign of pregnancy - "wet down there" or "running to the bathroom thinking AF is coming." The breath part is due to hormones relaxing muscles in you abdomen, including the diaphragm. That also gives you digestive upsets as food moves through the gut at a different rate. As for your dad, think of a cute and humorous way to use the purity ring. "Dad, this ring doesn't work the way I thought it did." Take another test first! God bless!

 

candylove - July 11

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candylove - July 12

GRANDPA VIV,can yew give me advice i need to knoe what do i do okay well im 16 gunna be 17 this month but me and my boyfriend decided to have s_x last week and an accident happened because we have always had unprotected s_x but i never thought this would happen to me but i guess it happened because he started crying becuase he said that after he felt he was going to nut he took it out but put it back in becuase he wanted to have a baby with me,i mean i wanted to but just not ryt now.so now im crying because im mom has always been there for me like she helped me out in everything and she tried her best because my dad never wanted me and my boyfriend to be with me so my mom finally helped me convince my dad to let me be with him and i do this!!huh i feel so bad but no its 4 days since we had s_x and i feel sick my stomach feels weird my back hurts really bad,my b___st hurt really bad,and i feel like to throw up but i dont and i havent thrown up he calls me everyday to ask me how i feel and if im okay....i just dont knoe if im pregnant or not but im waiting to get a pregnancy test to make sure.but from what i told yew what do yew think im pregnant or not???]]:/.. and hoiw do i tell my mom if i am i feel like i just left her down...

 

Grandpa Viv - July 12

That sounds likely pregnant to me. Pull out s_x is not much good. Your mom should have put you on the pill or Depo. I guess you can hope it will not stick, or that you are psyching yourself into signs - that happens. Take a test when your period is late or light for sure. If you get a positive, get your mom by herself and cry on her shoulder about betraying her trust. The two of you are going to have to figure out how to break the news to dad. Are you the oldest of the sisters? Best of luck!

 

candylove - July 13

yea im the older of y sisters but i have an older brother omg...i dnt know how hes gunna take this probably not very well,i just hope when i tell my mom she wont stop me from seeing my boyfriend because ima need him more than ever!!i dnt want my mom to put me on a pill or depo i dnt like that...yea ima wait until i test myself. thakx :/)

 

candylove - July 13

yea im the oldest of my sisters but i have an older brother omg...i dnt know how hes gunna take this probably not very well,i just hope when i tell my mom she wont stop me from seeing my boyfriend because ima need him more than ever!!i dnt want my mom to put me on a pill or depo i dnt like that...yea ima wait until i test myself. thakx :/)

 

Grandpa Viv - July 13

The one thing that doesn't add up in your time line is that 4 days is not really enough to start getting signs. When is your period due? Had you had s_x, even pull-out, earlier in the month?

 

candylove - July 14

hummmmmmm.... yea but but i dnt think i got pregnant then...:/ i jus thought of a way to tell my mom cuz i was thinking abt it all day yesterday and today and my friend said i should tell my mom i have alot of pain on my stomach and got to the hospital && ask them to takae me a pregnancy test and when they tell me my moms gunna be there that way i dnt have to tell her cuz i dnt wanna tell her.

 

Grandpa Viv - July 14

This scheme has pitfalls. I know you just can't imagine telling her, but most girls eventually do. You can get flowers and a card, start a convo about how many grandchildren she is going to end up with, send a text or email, or just show her the test when it turns positive and say "Uh-oh, I feel terrible in letting you down this way, but take a look at this." Please do come back and let us know how it all goes down. Seems like a test Saturday 23 would be late enough.

 

candylove - July 14

oh okay i think ima try that thankx and yes surely i will come back and tell you guys how it went....i just hope everything goes great!!:))

 

Riarios - August 2

I know you're not supposed to do this for other sites...but BabyGaga(.com) is honestly an amazing site. It's extremely helpful, and it has a large community of pregnant teens. It's a great place to get support. I like this site, as well, but BabyGaga is much more supportive. Of course, there are also tons of people who will rip on you, and judge you, but for the most part, it's just a great community.

 

justbrittney - November 30

Ok so I had s_x with this guy I'm talking too a few days maybe a week beforcmy period. I'm a days late my nipples are really sore and I feel like I've discharged more then I normaly do. I really don't understaind why I'm late I havnt changed any of my daily activitys or eatting habits. I'm not stressed. Idk I have taken 3 pregnancy tea and they all came out neg. Do you think i could be pregnant?

 

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