Need Abortion Info Dont Judge
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i was 15 last month just found out im preg n need info on abortion asap like were do i go n stuff. n also how long after abortion can u have s_x again. the father is a friend of my dads so obv i cant have this baby n i dont want my dad knowin about it all obv. i wanna get it out the way in case he goes off me if i get fat or something. he dont know im preg he said we could have kids when im old enough but i dunno
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jeez how old is this guy??
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he 34 i think i know its a big gap but we love each other
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Somehow I'm guessing that love is going to be a bit one sided. That bloke is paedophile love. If he goes off you if you 'get fat or something' how is that love? So your dad doesnt know his mate is shagging his underage daughter, obviously with no protection otherwise you wouldn't be pregnant. I think you have a lot more to sort out other than getting rid of an unwanted pregnancy!
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omg he is not a pedo!!!!!! we cant help our ages n we cant help fallin in love!!! he is NO pedo! he treats me good he makes me feel beutiful!! yeah every woman would feel like there man would be put off when they put wait on during been preg its normal!! n why would he want a fatty neway! ur just jelous!!
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lmao yeah I'm jealous of your paedophile 'boy' friend! If it was all so perfect love you wouldn't have a problem letting your dad know about it! If you were proud there'd be nothing to hide. Get to the doctor you silly little girl.
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f-u u just dont get it do u!! yeah i am a sweeta__s thats his nickname for me, u like?!?!!? lol no one ever called u that? guess not!! i been with loads of guys but i aint loved them but i love this guy, u dont have a clue, he LOVES me!!! other wise why would he sleep with me??!! the other guys i been with i never loed them but its ok cos i never told them i did either, they loved me tho so they slept with me. a guy can only sleep with u if he loves u, thats what my man has taught me! so course he loves me!!! i beleve him 101% he treats me so good why would i not trust him! yeah my dad would go mad but hed eccept it eventally for sure. look i dont even care for all this, i just wanted to know were to turn for abortions! its not the right time for him to have kids like i said he wants them when im old enough so only a year to go and id still be 15 when this 1s born so i cant have it. dont give me ur pointless apinions!
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yeah well its not my fault im a funny person n u just arnt!! LOL!! oh yeah n what u said about protection WE LOVE EACH OTHER!!!! we dont need to use it lol!!!!
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u just get pregnant at the right time with god will,the right time is when im old enough, this time was just a mistake. my man knows i cant get pregnant til the times right neway. i dont want him to think somethings wrong with me like i can get preg when the time isnt right n he might think im weird or that im lying n trying to have his baby which i arnt yet, i want his baby when im 16 n hes ready not before hes ready i wouldnt wanna lose him. i just dont think its right to tell him n make him worry ill just have the abortion on my own then deal with it, i dont wanna upset him
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why would he get arrested lol lol lol u dont have a clue!! we love each other n we like s_x whats wrong with that!!!!
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dont u have anything else to say??? guess not cos u know u cant win lol
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You are a victim of a pedophile whether you'd like to admit it or not. How do you think much older men get much younger girls to sleep with them? They make them believe they are in love with them. Young girls like yourself are easily manipulated and very gullible, making them easy targets. I'm telling you this to help you, not insult you. I had a friend a couple years ago who was 12 years old having s_x with a 30 year old. She absolutely believed they were in love, she thought they were going to get married and have a family together someday. They stayed together for about two years until he decided she was too old, and dumped her for someone younger. A little while after he broke up with her she found out she was pregnant and asked him what to do, he said it wasn't his, and told her father she was a s___t and sleeping around. When she told her dad it he was the father, he didn't believe her. She got a 'late-term' abortion at 19 weeks. She began self-mutilation shortly after that, and her father decided to send her to an all-girls christian school in another state, hoping she'd "get the whore out of her system." I haven't heard from her since. Please, I implore you, don't let this man continue to do these things to you, there is a reason it's illegal. Tell your parents, they love you and they will guide you through this. It's hard to see at a young age, but take it from someone who is a parent, everything they've ever done, no matter how unfair it seemed, was only to do what's best for you.
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Why would he get arrested?!! Oh my word child, you're underage and that's called RAPE. He would get in huge trouble if this came out...and it should. This whole situation is disgusting. I feel so sorry for the baby... And I don't think anyone will be jealous of you "getting it" every night with a 34 (you think?) year old child molester. Dream on... BTW, not using protection because you "love" each other and being afraid that he'll think something is wrong with you because you got pregnant now instead of in a year is STUPID. Your body will not respond to you telling it to wait until you're 16 if you're ovulating now, sleeping around and using no protection. DUH I could yell at you for a long time, but it'd give me a headache. God help this baby.
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And, a man certainly doesn't have to love you to sleep with you. If you've slept with guys you didn't love what makes you think they are incapable of doing the same? You only ever love someone once right? Then why do some men have several different partners? Why do they cheat on their wives? Why are there men who rape a different woman every night? Why are there men who sleep with a different woman every night? One things for sure, men love s_x, and they will do or say anything to get it. Which is why this man has taken advantage of you.
You don't need protection because you're in love? Is that something he told you? Men don't like using protection because it takes away some of the feeling of s_x. It has nothing to do with being in love. The only reason you wouldn't use protection is if you wanted to conceive a child. Since it seems neither of you want to... the only other reason would be that he said these things to take advantage of you.
He calls you his sweeta__s and you like that? That's the type of name a man will call you if he sees you nothing but a sweet a__s... nothing but someone used for s_x. A play thing, if you will. If he respected you his nicknames would be flattering and considerate. Like "Sweet heart", "love", "beautiful", etc.
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