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you planned then most of us didnt, and the really young ones who did are still not smart. And if shes a fake then why do you care about her, let her get her fix because a lot of ppl are fakes on here, the ones who arent need answers what if she isnt one of the fakes? im not saying she isnt fake but lets just give her some advice that will help her out rather then try and run her down because if shes a fake then she wants a reaction outta ppl, she got it

I don't see it? Am I dumb? Haha

sweeta__s let us know how the dr appointment goes. and you have to understand that all of this does sound fake but like amanda said she knows someone who went through the same thing so if it isn't fake good luck! and please get on birth control.

The eyeroll part didn't post, so ignore it.

haha yes amanda you are dumb lol not in a bad way. I guess saying the person is dumb isnt what i meant to say. More like the action of getting pregnant? I know it was stupid for me to get knocked up, but it happened i delt with it and i dont think i would do things differently, BUT if i had a chance to go back and redo it i would probably be more careful. not saying i dont love my little guy just its hard to try and make things work and get respect from ppl and that p__ses me off. So i think its more the action of getting pregnant young not the person who does it. Does that make more sense?

Anyways, I'm gonna wake up the hubby who was working late yesterday and jump in the shower and get ready to see his side of the family. :-).

ohhhh have fun with that, i always hate going to see the in laws, and especially on a holiday! the kids will be sugared up!

I hope your okay, have you decided what you are going to do yet? Do you feel okay? Genna x

thanx genna im soooooo not sure nemore!!! think this has been a real shock n cunfused about the way im feelin about it all.....when i think about miscarryin it hurts n i think why if i wanted the abortion.......i guess i just didnt realize what it all envolved n been takin it all so lite. he called to ask how the doc went n if ive told neone the truth. i guess thats all that matters to him. oh well..... :(

I'm so glad your starting to see what everyone has been trying to tell you, and obviously the way you feel about him stopped you from realising that everyone in here was trying to help you see sense. I really think you should re-consider the abortion and think about yourself and the baby, don't let anyone else make that decision for you, as it is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life. If you feel that you still don't want to keep this baby, then maybe abortion is the right option for you but in future please understand that an abortion is not birth control. Have you spoken to your Mum about what is going to happen? Genna xx

I believe Tess said at some point or another (paraphrasing) 'I'm tired of all the arguing so I just ignore it and don't say anything except to the stupid 14 year olds trying to get pregnant on here.' (We all know 14 year olds trying to get pregnant just means the stupid people who don't know what they're talking about.) Tess - I'm sorry if I offended you (?) I was just trying to get down to the bottom of things because this is certainly not something anyone should joke about. However unless there is some kind of hard evidence that she is a fake, I'll treat her like she isn't one just incase. I simply don't think it's worth the risk of hurting someone in this position.

I hope your feeling a bit better today, I think you need to talk to someone else (not your mom) about your different options, do you have anyone else, as in family, that would take you to live with them in your condition? Do you have a teacher that you could talk to? I really hope things work out for the best for you, with or without your baby. I have always believed everything happens for a reason, so what every you decide to do I will be here to talk to you.. Gen xx

hope your doing ok! i think your mom should def be more supportive i can understand that she is upset, but to call you names thats horrible. you could always consider adoption too. make the decision that you want to not anyone else if you want to keep your baby (if your not having a miscarriage) keep it. it will be hard but there is alot of support for teen parents out there. try to talk to your teachers at school they will make sure you get the care you need and make sure you tell them how your mom is reacting to it so they know you don't have family support they will help you. i wish you the best of luck!!

Teddy-I want you to think really hard about how I usually respond or the methods I usually take to certain situation, and really think about what my true beliefs are, and compare it to what I said on here. Now I want you to think why I said what I said! Did it come to you??? Sweet-you need to tell yourmom who the father is, and tell the doctor. I know that even though you have this revelation about him, your emotions are still involved and probably hoping it'sa fluke and he'll come backaround. He's being an a__s, and why should you have to be treated like you are something shameful. Yes he may not have been making LOVE but (if this is real) you were, so don't let him put you into shame. If he really cares he'll take whatever he gets and still believe that you guys will betogether afterwards, if he didn't careabout you, then isn't the best payback for him to rot in jail-like he deserves??? If you decide to have this baby, it does not deserve to come into this world as something you are hiding and treatin like he/she should be ashamed of who he/she is.

Yeah like that thing on the news, if you guys heard about it... That teacher who was dating her 13 year old student and went to jail for like 10 years or something because of it... He waited for her to get out and now they're married and have a baby aww. See that's what love would be like. They had a big age difference, that's not the disturbing part of your story.

Cos I know I can't win?! This isn't about winning is it. You're obviously now realising what everyone was saying in the first place and why I thought you were ridiculous. I'm not going to be all oh haha I was right, I doubt thats going to help you in any way. As has been said already, you must really think this through now cos only you can make this decision. His reaction I think shows he isn't going to supportive in this situation. I know you feel a lot about him, but even though he may have genuinely fell for you, he knew it was wrong and didn't want to be caught so had to hide it. Is that the type of relationship you want? I think if he really cared, then no matter what, if he thought you were miscarrying he'd have been round like a shot. Well I hope you can figure things out, I understand your mother will be mad but she needs to get a grip too, cos shouting about it wont change or solve anything.