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Anyway have you taken another test yet?

It does seem fishy But he hasn't even wanted to have s_x since I told him I might be pregnant. And no I talked to my mom and she's taking me to the drs at 4:15 today soo ahh I'm a little nervous

Ah, it's so refreshing to hear that you had no problem telling your mom. So many teens are scared of their parents! Good luck at your appointment!

Well I was afraid to tell my mom but I needed help And she completely blew me away:) and said no matter what she would help me out

hey have you found anything out yet?

Not yet my app. Is in 3 hours heh.. I'll get on and report as soon as I can

Hahahaha oh my. That's an astounding thing to believe. But anyway. :P I wish you luck. I don't know what you're hoping for, but I hope whatever it is turns out good for you.

Well just got done breaking the news to my parents Er my dad turns out I am pregnant : /

Well you seem unsure about that... But if you decide to keep your baby congratulations!! Get your boyfriend some s_x ed lessons :D

Lol you're crazy cool I'm only unsure about what's best for my baby : /

Hmm alright, well let's think about this. How's your life going at this point? School, job, living arrangements? I a__sume you are old enough to get a job if you don't have one?

Yea I'm 15 I can get a job and most likely will, I live with my parents, schools fine I mean I don't have any problems except going.. At this point lol. It's really just... I don't know if I'd make a good mom : /

Alright let me give you some insight. I got pregnant with my daughter on my 17th birthday, when I found out I practically threw myself down on the floor in a panic. I didn't know what kind of mother I would make, I didn't even really like kids... I felt awkward around them. I didn't have a job, I was still in high school, lived with my grandma, my parents were going through a divorce at the time which was later called off, I was in my fourth year of clinical depression, seeing a psychologist twice a week having all kinds of medication thrown in my face that had absolutely no effect on me, I was having troubles with my relationship........ Pretty much everything that could go wrong in my life, did. I was feeling like a couldn't do anything. I was failing all of my cla__ses because I was too busy trying to deal with everything else. I asked everyone what I should do with my pregnancy and everyone said to get an abortion. But I decided not to. I was the biggest loser you would ever meet. I just sat around all day and did nothing. I didn't talk to anyone, I didn't have a job, go to school... I just sat in my room, on my computer or watching tv. If there was anyone who was less of a mother figure than I was, I haven't met them. It wasn't until I was 6 months along, and had finally decided to tell my dad (which is a huge deal because my dad is an abusive alcoholic that I hadn't spoken too in several months other than the occasional "you're a whore" phone call.... which I still receive... great guy!) that I had started gaining confidence in myself and growing attached to my daughter. Telling my dad didn't go so well, but telling my sister who helped me to tell my dad went great. My sister was the first person I told who didn't immediately respond with outrage. She was happy for me, and rushed me to a private clinic to find out the s_x! She payed for it, got print out pictures of her, and even a DVD of her. I saw her up there on the big screen wiggling around... And I became an entirely different person. I got up off my a__s, started doing my d__n homework for once, went to the bookstore, read every parenting and pregnancy book they had on their shelves and, registered on pregnancy-info :) I'm sure if I had come here before I told my sister they would have been like AH WTF WHORE GO AWAY! but instead they welcomed me and supported me through my pregnancy and continue to support me through my parenting. My daughter is going to be 9 months old on March 2nd, is a very happy, healthy baby, and I have never been happier, or felt more self-worth before in my life. She may not know it, or even understand it, but she saved my life. I owe everything to her, the least I can do is be a decent parent :) Anyway the whole point of this being, I bet like 99.9% of wonderful mothers where freaked out and unsure how they would be as a parent... that's just realizing what a difficult job it is. But just because it's difficult doesn't mean you can't do it. Motherhood calls upon strength we often didn't know we had. In the end, it's your decision. If you want to be a mother, you seem like you'd be a good one. If you'd rather hold back and continue on with your life, then that's totally understandable too. Be sure to put a lot of thought into it. Do your parenting research!

that did give me some hope(: I've pretty much stopped going to school cause my mom said she'd put me in independent study or a charter school . I still do all my homework I just don't turn it in lol. Another thing I'm afraid of is I was a very sickly girl and have had 2 surgeries. One was only 2 years ago. So they have me in the special care obgyn for extra attention. And I don't want to get attached and have it die : / I mean as it is whenever my stomach hurts I can't help rubbing circles on my belly telling the 3 week old embryo everything will be okay(: haha I'm a little crazy but I do it without thinking.

Yeah I went to independent study for a while, it was awesome for me. Aww see, you already care so much for your baby. God that's so sweet haha. Since you are already attached, you're going to stay attached no matter what happens. Sounds like you're already on the road to motherhood :)

It seems like it would be for the best lol Yea it's just hard to think about. I'll probably end up keeping it lol (: