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i was a virgin then i met the love of my life. eventually it happened.he knew i was a virgin and he admitted 2 accidently "you know what" in me. well now i'm here after 3 months of being active with him. but his mother thinks different, she wants me to take a paternity test. we laugh at her. should i give her one or just leave her with a dumb look on her face
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Hi Kimyra08 - I understand you are a bit anxious but you will get better responses if you stick to the one post - this is the 3rd post I have seen and they are all the same basically. Anyway my answer to you is just take the paternity test - if you know he is the father then what do you have to loss?? It will prove her wrong...
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Congratulations! This is the only guy you have been with, so both of you know who is the father. Give his mom a hug and say "you're so funny". If she still wants a paternity test after the baby is born, give her the satisfaction - no skin off your nose - and it will be much cheaper than a prenatal paternity test. Good luck!
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Take the test. I'm sure once his mother gets to know you better and you do your best to let her get to know you, things will improve. Until then, she doesn't really know you -- and has no idea if you're honest and trustworthy. One of the quickest ways to prove that you are is to take the test. When the results come back, don't hold it in her face -- just tell her that you hope that you can put this nonsense behind you. She is the grandmother of your child and regardless of what you think of her, she will always be an important person in your child's life. For the sake of your child you should try to put your best foot forward and resolve this situation instead of trying to make it worse by rubbing it in.
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i would do it as an "i told you so" gesture. but that's just me lol.
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