Please Help Me -pg114446911218
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hi, i'm 16 and 28 weeks pregnant, my partner is turning 18 the day before our baby is due and thinks he is going to be drunk that night!! i left school last year but now i'm doing my schooling at home, and i work 8 hours a day on weekends. he expects me to do my school work, keep my job and do all the house work!! like today i'm on my work computer having to type this, the house is still a mess because i haven't had the time to clean yet and he's at a friends place...why can't he clean up??? i know he loves me and he wants this baby but he has the worst temper and i don't know how to go about asking for his help without having a huge fight..again!! so i was wondering if someone (especially teen dads or dads 2 b) could give me some advice on how to approach him!! please help me!!
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FIRST OF ALL UNDERSTAND THAT HE'S YOUNG, AND ALSO HAS A LOT OF GROWING TO DO. SECOND OF ALL YOU WILL NEED TO APPROACH HIM WHEN HE'S RELAXED NOT INTOXICATED OR AROUND FRIENDS POSSIBLY IN THE EVENING TIME. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL MAKE IT CLEAR YOU'RE NOT TRYING TO NAG HIM BUT YOU SIMPLY NEED A LITTLE HELP WITH THE HOUSEWORK ETC. AND ASK HIM TO COMPROMISE BECAUSE YOU TWO HAVE A BABY ON THE WAY AND IT HAS TO START SOMEWHERE NOW IS THE PERFECT TIME. I HOPE I HAVE HELPED.
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