Understanding Men Please Help

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teigan - October 3

to ANON ???? why not put your name, i am not trying to convince anyone that i have a perfect relationship, like i have said thousands of times, i just dont like people telling me what my husband or myself do or dont do, wether right or wrong, i should know wether i look at men, and i should know if he looks a women, we dont need p___n and thats that, its not a point im trying to make, im defending what good name my man has left as all women and other men ever do is drag them to perverts levels, " hes a man he MUST look" " i think britney is fxxxing s_xy, that means all other men must" its nonsense. and if people think that a man looking at p___n, is just "entertainment, something to do that there not really interested in then there thicker than what i thought, i dont have a perfect relationship, we have ups and downs, but certainly not about c___p like this, get your self new husbands as they will never change for you!!

 

Hi - October 4

This post has gone way out of control. To Clueless: Good luck! I hope everything works out for you, and just follow your instincts. To Teigan: I think the problem here is that your a__suming that everyone feels the same way about s_x as you do. Not everyone thinks that s_x, nudity, or p___n is dirty or offensive. When we say that guys look, we're not saying there is anything wrong with that. You a__sume there is something wrong with a guy or girl if they like to look at others or experiment with their s_x life. That is your own hang-up...accept it and embrace it as your problem. Anyway, I hope you and your wife (uhh, I mean husband) a loving and cuddling life together forever. Bye, Bye everyone!

 

twist - October 4

Sorry people, but I have to agree with Teigan. I don't think there is anything wrong with p___n. I couldn't care less what other people do in their own homes, but I get sick of people a__suming that everyone is the same, and if you claim to be different, you are in denial or lying to each other or something. So many of my friends say it's natural for couples to look at other men/women, and also to argue, and if you do neither of those there is something wrong with your relationship, or there will be soon. I know guys who like p___n, and I know guys who are grossed-out by it (I suppose they're just lying, right?). I know it's off subject to what this thread was about, but why do people have to a__sume that ALL men (and women) are a certain way. It's so stereotypical.

 

clueless - October 5

Twist I think you made some great points, thanks. I think that sterotypes goes both ways, some people say that everybody looks at p___n, and if you dont your sick or lying, the other side is that some people say I dont look at p___n and if you do your sick and in a bad relationship. My feelings are that if you do and and it doesnt hurt your relationships, great. If you dont look at p___n, and it doesnt hurt your relationship, great. We are all different, and we need to respect that.

 

D - October 7

From a man's point of view, I'm on a life-long mission to see as many bare b___bies and b___ts as I can. It doesn't mean I fantasize about these women. I've been happily married for nine years. It's just a habit. My wife can't walk past a clearance rack without looking...I can't go past a nudie pic without looking.

 

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