I Need Help With Judgements

23 Replies
Jamie - September 24

I totally agree with Tiffany. What is "best" for your child may be "worst" for mine and vice versa. You can't judge people for not doing what's "best" for their children, because they probably ARE doing what's best for THEIR children.

 

Jane - September 24

There are so many things in life that p__s me off so bad and I am also very judgmental about people based on political views, religious views, closed mindness, stupidity, etc, etc, etc ... However, I cannot spend my days and hours worring about all of that. However if you cannot get over it, If BF and circ_mcision are that important to you, then become an activist for both causes. That will help relieve some of that anger and frustration.

 

kEEKEE - September 24

There are many different reasons why women doesn't choose to b___st-feed their babies. Reasons why shouldn't be judged or looked upon as bad parenting. Circ_mcision is a personal choice between the child's parents. You can spent your life judging people over their personal beliefs, religious practices, or morals. Wouldn't judging these subject just be a waste of time and energy. It is alright to have opinions on circ_mcision and b___st-feeding but don't be too vocal/critical that it would scare your love ones away. I learned to keep my mouth shut only if its life threatening, abuse, or if someone ask my opinion. It makes life easier. Take care

 

L - September 24

Get a life and worry about your own choices not others! But that's OK, just like you are judging others, others are judging you too.

 

KT - September 24

You need help with judgements? I think you need help with a little more than that hon.

 

Alisha - September 25

I don't b___stfeed and my son is not circ_mcized. You just have to keep in mind that each is a personal decision, that the parents have a good reason for it. Just try to be open minded to new ideas. I think it is sad that we can't ask for advice without that one person bashing us. I think it is brave of you to admit you have a problem and to ask for help. Its okay to say "I disagree but I do see your point of view".

 

nelly - September 25

I know grown men who where never circ_mcized and went and got it done. Most men prefer it at least my husband and all his friends and family.I dont have a son but if I did we would have him circ_mcized as far as b___stfeeding I think its great. I tried it and my milk didnt form til kinda late and she was losing weight and she just wouldnt take it good.

 

.... - September 25

KT, what are you talking about??

 

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