Pregnancy After 3 Miscarriages

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D D - February 20

DD here two m/c s 12/3/05 and 2/11/06. I am in the process of educating myself. The docs seems so darn secretive about possible testing and things to look for. I cam across a site with the following fertility and prenatal testing. Anyone know what these are? BhCG; Estradiol; FSH; LH; Progesterone; Prolactin; Testosterone*; Total BhCG;

 

crystal197685 - February 21

hi i am like alot of you women on here,i have been blessed with one healthy 2 year old son but have suffered two miscarriages one at 6 weeks and one at just 4 and a half weeks.i have just found out i am pregnant again and i am terrified i am going to miscarry again as i am getting the achey feeling low down in my stomach i am so scared i am not going to be ableto have any more children,i no it sounds selfish as i am allready a mummy but i cant imagine my life without loads of children around me.

 

D D - February 21

Dylan and all you other ladies , I know it can happen. I like you just don't understand the recurrent m/c but what can be so much worse is the doctor's approach like it's no big deal...I am taking a couple months of from ttc - so right now i feel powerless, like i am just letting time pa__s me by doing nothing , getting older and no closer to a baby.

 

yetanothertripletmom - February 22

I feel for all of you ladies because I've been there. PLEASE find a doctor who will help you and do m/c testing. You may have to see more than one doctor before you find one that will help you, but it's worth it. Every moment I spend with my triplets worth the 3 agonizing years I spent miscarrying.

 

3buns - February 23

hi ladies. i'm really touched by your support to ech other and by allowing us to read your experiences,thankyou. i had 3 miscarriages and unfortunately have now experienced a triplet miscarriage. i'm absolutely devasted. i want to type but i'm unable to at the moment. i'm sorry. i wish you all the very best in your current and future pregnancies and lives.

 

D D - February 23

I agree testing is important. Who waited to ttc and had success. i got pg the second time almost immediatelyafter my m/c and then m/c again. I am trying not to get pg but i don't want to go on the pill....dh laughs his head off when I mention condoms.

 

Dylan - March 7

3BUNS: Oh no!! I am so very sorry about the loss of your triolets. I have thought of you and wondered how you were. Never did I imagine reading such devastating news!!! My heart goes out to you and I am here if you need a caring ear. I am also sorry to all of you others who have experienced multiple losses. I would have to agree with DD and say have all the tests your md will order. It is much too hard both emotionally and physically to experience multiple losses. I myself have been going through tests for over four months now. Still no definite answers and I am terrified to ttc. Best of luck to all!!!! Dylan

 

Bethpi - March 7

Hello....am 42 years and just had a 2nd m/c in 6 months. Am ttc my 1st. Of course all of my friends have college age kids. I spent my youth traveling..and enjoying the single life, and am now settled down and want children...and it's so hard. My doctor is saying not to give up and try again. I did have an ectopic preg. when I was 21 and on the pill..so only have 1 tube..am apparently somewhat fertile. who knew making a baby was such hard work!

 

lynnejones - June 29

I too have had 3 m/c. And today I am heading into my 4th m/c, I started to bleed yesterday and even more today. I went in for blood testing this am, but will not find out my results until tomorrow morning. I have no answers to why this keeps happening to me. But it gets harder every time. Four m/c in 3 yrs really hurts. I have scheduled an appointment with a specialist, but it is not until the end of July. I don't know what my regular doctor will think of this, but I really need answers. I have been taking progesterone cream, prescribed to me by a neopathic but as we see that did not help with this pregancy either. I hope someone can come up with an answer so maybe we can all help one another.

 

Nazli - July 3

Hi Dylan, I am sorry to hear about your loss and know how you feel but please dont give up and know that you are not alone. If it's ok I would like to share my. I have had three miscarriages in my life. The first one I was very young I did'nt not even know that I was preganant until the misscarriage happend. I got married last year July and my husband and I decided to start a family immediatly . I am generally a very healty person and a__sumed that I would not have any problems I fell pregnant 3 months after being married but lost the baby at two months I was very hurt but my husband supported me all the way and told me that we will not give up. Then I fell pregnant in January this year and at three weeks lost again. We eventually decided to go and see a specialist who did'nt tell us much she told me that if I tried again I would lose the baby. Well I told myself that God knows best and what ever will happen will happen. I even started started believing that I would never have kids. We never planned anything but a few weeks later I found out that I was pregnant without even getting a period. Today I am five months pregnant and all's going well. So all I can say to you is dont give up always believe and b4 you know it you will be pregnant and everything will go well. Everything of the best to you.

 

lilyommi69 - July 16

Hello, im 20 and i've has 3 m/c first one was june 2005 then jan 2006 and again june 2006... before the m/c i had one abortion and i regret it everyday of my life. Im waiting to see a fertility specialist because i really want to haver a baby. Me and my husband are getting a lil frustrated and i think its time to get some answers. Good luck and stiky baby dust to u all. =) i will update

 

ashanti - August 8

hi everyone i am 29 years old i have had 4 m/c's i have 3 kids(twins,singleton)I am 6 weeks pregnant and very scared. My first u/s showed a heart rate of 116 at 5w5d is that normal? anyway i pray for all of our healthy recovery from so much loss. but i say try try again the lord will never put more on you than you can bare be strong mourne your loss but don't give up. when you have that healthy baby in your arms that 1 baby will represent the love and determination you showed for all those lost.

 

MelissaK - August 10

I can't believe I am joining this group. I am in the process of my 3rd MC in one year. I can't believe this.

 

samo - September 26

Hello Ladies, i have just experienced my 3rd miscarriage so decided to see if i was alone. I have read all your sad stories and wish each and every1 of you good luck. Myself and my partner are very very sad this time but it helps knowing i am not alone and can talk to people who have and are going through the same as us.All i am able to say at the mo is "WHY".we are going to be refered to a specialist but my problem isent conceiving its keeping the baby we have been pregnant 3 times in 10 months.so im praying form4th time luckyxxx

 

Alison - September 26

Wow I just read this post as I thought it sounded familiar & I had been writing in it in 2005 & 2006! My last post on this msg was in January 2006 as I was going through what should have been the due date for my 3rd miscarried baby. I was so low then but trying hard to believe in a miracle even after 3 losses.. well I won't go into detail in fear of upsetting anyone but my miracle did happen. After 3 miscarriages I had a successful pregnancy and my daughter was born in September last year. She was born 2 years to the day from my first miscarriage... I thank God for her every day. I took small dose aspirin after tests at the recurrent miscarriage clinic showed now medical condition but the specialist suggested trying it as it was safe to do so and might help blood flow etc. There's no way to know if it did help or if things would have been ok 4th time without it. But I was glad I took it just incase it did help things. SAMO I am so sorry you are going through all this too. I remember how depressed I was and how hard it was and I feared never having a child of my own. I will pray for a healthy pregnancy and baby for you. Remember though even if your tests can't give you answers it can still happen, even after 3 losses. God bless xxx

 

Alison - September 26

* "no" medical reason not "now" medical reason sorry

 

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