Question For The Pregnant Women Out There
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So we are 14 weeks today and my wife wont let me sleep with her or see her naked??? I don’t understand, I’ve told her that she is still s_xy and I tell her every morning that she is more beautiful now then when we first met…. I wake up every morning and make her a grill cheese with egg and ham and I try to clean the house everyday before she gets home (I make it a point to leave work early) I have not pushed s_x (even though it’s been a month) she hangs out with her friends more then me. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG??? Last night was the first time I asked her about s_x and I was shot down as fast as the question came out of my mouth. Im not trying to be pushy but I don’t know whats going on??? This is my first and her 4th. I have tried to talk to her about it but she wont talk about it.
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Not knowing yor wife or having spoken with her, there are a few possibilities that could be going on. This is her 4th pregnancy and she may not feel comfortable with her body at this point in order to have you see it. I sometimes feel the same way even though my husband rea__sures me every time I show doubt. It's just a feeling that wont go away. She also may not feel like that right now but knows what will come down the line later and wants to push you away now. As far as s_x, you honestly just have to be patient and prepared that it may just not happen. Every single woman is different where this is concerned for many reasons (ie morning sickness, lower desire, hormones) Unless she tells you, I'm sorry but you just wont know. As this is your first the only advice I can give you is to just keep being who you are and act exactly like the man she fell in love with. Hormones are the worst part of pregnancy and they totally affect every person differently. Just keep in mind that she does love you but she may not be able to understand her own feelings right now because of that. She may start taking things out on you or b__w up for no reason. I promise you that she doesnt always mean it or at least not to the extent that it come out. It's a fragile but wonderful time and at the end of all of this will be your baby... and you wife will at some point be back to herself again, too! Good luck!
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