Sex Question-pg121890601237
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So my Bf and I use the pull out method but recently i dont think he has been pulling out. everytime we have had s_x this month he will ask me where i want it and then a few minutes later he says he had it but lost it or almost had it. so we take a few minutes break and then start again until he c_ms and pulls out.
So, im wondering what you all think? i dont want to mention anything about it right now though, i did ask him if it all was working for him and he keeps saying that it is...so is it a bedroom problem or do you think he just isnt pulling out? im wanting to know because i should O in a couple of days
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Do you want to get pregnant? Whether or not he is doing the pull out method correctly doesn't matter, because there is still a HUGE chance you could become pregnant if this is your only method of birth control. It could be he loosing sensation when he pulls out, which means he wasn't close enough when he pulled out. Keep in mind however that the closer he gets before pulling out, the more pre-c_m he releases & the harder it will be to pull out in time. The pull out method is not reliable so if you really don't want to get pregnant use another form of BC like condoms, pill, abstaining during fertile periods etc.
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Well, if it happens, it happens, is the way we are going. But you see we have never had that problem before..like when it did happen he had went completely soft and we had to start all over but every time im pretty sure he was there but whenever he pulled out he said he almost had it? and im just baffled that you could be so close to orgasm and just lose it??
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if he came in you, you should know. it kinda does have to come back out.
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well shaylyn it just sounds like he is trying to hard to try and control c_mming too early,alot of men do that!So they are concentrating so much on not c_mming that they lose it.talk to him and ask him if he has already came in you cause if he's being sneaky about it it doesnt sound like the guy you wanna have a bay with.
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miss25cyr-- So your saying that you think he is just trying to make it last longer?? and since thats what he is doing he just loses it all together? wouldnt that make alot of pre-c_m though?
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pre-ejaculation.......i got pregnent the and i didnt ever remember being came in in like well forever i couldnt remember the last time it had been for a few years.But That was our method..."pulling out" but there is the pre-c_m too and it as effective as the wad itsself.And sperm last up to three days in the body now a days.Sperm just get more toupher and toupher throughout the years it used to be 2 days about 10 years ago....and yeah it comes out...sometimes eventually.Ive had c_m seem like it goes in and circulates or something then itll come out its wierd like it takes alittle time.Alot of girl experiance it too ive read alot of them on here as well...Oh i just read your second comment.My bf does the same thing.Its wierd how it totally seems like he had it and he even goes limper and everything and then he says he didnt get it.Because we so know when he does,you know it ladies.Its wierd im baffled myself.Yeah so close and loos it the whole hard....i even felt it twitch alittle like it does when he gets it but its wierd again i know ive said it already but it is.And teddy not all guy's c_m is the same and the same ammount....true story off subject but i had one period after i met me bf,one you guys and that was it he knocked me up not even a month after we got the hook up.We talked for a long time before that but about 3 weeks after we got together.I swear its not normal i read a guy only c_ms out 2 table spoons i swear he came out atleast a half a cup before...........But on subject again you qasked miss a question and they never responded.My fiance trys to make it last longer and i think thats why he about gets there and then looses it in that way that he does.He stops me alot before it happends because he says he wants to "please" me and last longer....lol i had a man cry and go "no no no no oh no" i mean he was c_mming and crying at the same time lol. But i think it makes pre-c_m most of the second half espesually when he trys to hold it back he cant stop it from comming out all together i belive.I thinks thats how i got knocked up before.I keep saying before because i lost my twins and it sucked and before i lostem the dude left me after a 4 yr relationship after he fount out i was preg.But any-who I have ran exactly what you are through my head so many times and even talked about it with him.They have spermicide folms.But i find them very expensive myself.But you sound concerned right now.Do you had a hunch that your? if you are its really a blessing .No one in the world knows your body better then you do.....okay let me stop i done wrote enouph to write a book.But this annonimous thing is kool i can be honest ,well i am anyways.But No judging.And beside s_x is how babies are made after all and this is a baby site......
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