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WELL LAST MONTH MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAD SEX...WOW...I KNOW....BUT THIS TIME I DIDN'T PULL OUT IN TIME! IT JUST FEEL SO GOOD.....BUT SHE DOESN'T KNOW THAT...I TOLD HER I PULLED OUT IN PLENTY OF TIME. NOW SHE HASN'T GOTTEN HER PERIOD AND SHE IS ALWAYS TIRED....SHOULD I TELL HER THAT I DIDN'T MAKE IT OR JUST LET HER FIND OUT?
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Man, what were you thinking? Anytime you have unprotected s_x, you should be asking yourself, am I ready to be a daddy?
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SHOULD I TELL HER OR NOT???PLEASE HELP ME
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YES you should shes gonna find out sooner or later isnt she..ya daft man u should think b4 u act!
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You're using an extremely unreliable method of birth control. Even if you manage to pull out in time, everytime, the prec_m a man has before he ejaculates has sperm and can come out anytime while you are having s_x. The truth is, if you get pregnant it is BOTH of your fault for using such an unreliable and foolish method of birth control. The birth control pill and condom are still only 97-98% effective when used exactly as they should be so using neither of these and just hoping that you pulled out in time isn't enough. Actually, it's stupid. Go ahead and tell her that you didn't pull out in time, if it eases your conscience a bit because you are being dishonest by not telling her. The reason you are being dishonest with her is because you both (wrongly) felt that you were safe just as long as you pulled out. You believed that you were no longer being safe by not pulling out when you should have and you were lying when you told her you did. She then felt safe from pregnancy. Again, even though you are both wrong in thinking this, you both BELIEVED that you were being safe so you are now being dishonest. If, God willing, she isn't pregnant, buy some condoms (Hello, STD's?), get her on the pill and educate yourself on s_xual health and on a womens body!
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Screw it. If she is pregnant she will find out anyway. Even if you did pull out in time there is a possibilty that she could get pregnant from pre-c_m. I wouldn't tell her. But just so you know, that was a dumb move on your part. You basically decided for both that you were becoming parents. Not the best thing for you to do! I just hope you are both ready to be Mommy and Daddy!
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I would say tell her at least you were simi honest about it you know better if you tell her then the dr.
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