Im Only 14 And Im Pregnate
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i dont belive so i have a friend who got pregnate when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15 her little girl is now 4months old DHS is always on her case because she is so young. your going to still have to stay in school or you an get in alot of trouble even if you got a baby how old id your boyfriend you can email me at UBigNasty08@wmconnect.com
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its up to u its your life no one can make u give thr baby up
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i dont think so but i feel that if u can take the time out to lay down and have a child that u should be able to raise it yeah it will be hard and i think u are a good person and mother for wanting to keep it.
i wish u the best in life and with the and with the baby. ohh ur boyfriend is a really good person for being there. good luck. if u ever want to talk my email is abdrewsbabigrl@aim.com i kinda know where ur coming from ive lost 2 and im only 15. ive got a good b/f 2 hes my first and last but keep a hold of urs cuz theres not many out there that would stay with you at this age.
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From what i understand, it is your body and your rights....Im 15 and 21 weeks pregnant..when my parents first found out they said they were MAKING me have an abortion...then we talked with my pastor and he said they CAN'T make me have an abortion...if you want to keep the baby...you need to give it the best life possible....if you can't provide that then maybe you should look at adoption...but NOT ABORTION....you need to have some kind of support because you can't do this alone....try talking with your parents and maybe someone from your church if you have one....maybe go to a planned parenthood center...try to convince your parents before anyone you do anything you will regret....
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Dont worry so am i, Im 14 and dnt no what im gonna do i now the dad but we arnt serious and he used me!!!!!! i need serious help i dnt no what 2 do :o(
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im gonna keep the baby no matta what any1 sayz wetha its the right thing to do in other pplz eyes is different 2 what i think and its gonna be me who lives with the final disition not any1 else!!! I really think u shud do what u thinks right its really not up 2 any1 else but u!! Go 4 it girl its all up r u huni x x x x x x x x
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How babies look at 31 week pregnant
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| M - August 1 |
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I think before you abort you should really research what that action may do. There are so many side effects and negative possibilites that are crazy. I did a research paper on it once, and w/you being so young, the effects on you could be much worse. If you abort, you should really go back and think about how responsible you are in having s_x, if you can't take responsibility for your actions. I'm almost 20 and I find it hard for myself to take care of a baby and mine isn't even born yet. My parents have to help me b/c I can't go to school, work, and take care of a child all on my own. I think that what "a" said is a good option for you...an open adoption. If you want to be involved in that child's life. You wouldn't have any kind of obligation to the baby unless you wanted it. My opinion, you should really take the time out to sit and research every possible aspect of abortion, adoption, and keeping the baby. There are ways to get help if you choose to keep the baby but I won't lie to you and say it will be easy, b/c it won't. Be positive and I don't know if you're a religious person or not, but if you are, pray about it. God will never put more on our plate than we can handle. If God brings us to it, He'll get us through it. Have faith! Do your research BEFORE making any decisions. Good luck and I hope the best for you!
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no your parents cannot make you give the child up.....but you have to think who's going to pay for the care of the child? cloths, diappers, medical care? Is it fair to your parents to take care of your responsiblity? Your to young to get a job...what about school? Having a baby looks like it's wasy but it's not I'm 23 years old and a single parent...it's hard as ever. That father might want it now but theres a good chance he will change his mind and you will be stuck by yourself. Is that the kind of life you want for your child? You need to stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about the baby ....at 14 you can't take care of yourself let alone a child. Your still a child....
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Hana, please, speak english.
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no you have the choice to keep ur baby its not up to your parents it is up to the state if u are fit to raise it i was in the same sittuation whaen i was 15 and the state let me keep the bab y only if i went to school and if i got a job so the best of luck to u amy
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Im only 16 and im having my baby..my parents did have their appinions but still i think its up to you..if you think you can do it and you can give your child everything it needs in life then i dont think there should be any reason to kill such a presious thing.
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I beleive that you should follow your heart...It took me weeks of sleepless night to make my decision to keep my little girl but i wouldnt change it for the world...shes due in jan 2006 and i couldnt be more happy...I knew my parents were allowed their opinion but in the end it was up to us.My boyfriend was also very unsure at the beggining seems he's only 19 but when you go and get that first ultrasound and you's both see your little miricle write infront of you..it made my decision for me..To kill such a precious thing would be murder..I may not be rich but i have everything it takes to love my child and raise her properly...BUT,only do this if you fell you are strong enough...I may be against abortions,but i dont agree with bringing a new life into the world if your not capable..it is not fare on your child and yourself..adoption is the only other solution...as everyone is saying,there are alot of couples out there who cant have children and may be able to give the lttle one more than you can..but i have faith..i wish you the best of luck..and hope your little one comes out beautiful and healthy!xoxoxo
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| Kt - August 9 |
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well just read some of these answers & they r stupid...
KEEP IT
if you got rid of it you would feel bad about that.. it be a life your killing, & if you gave it up you be thinkin what is he/she doing etc??? could you live with that!!!
im 19 & have a baby on way, its not best time for mebut my boyfriend & i are going to deal with it, it will be hard yes but in long run it be one of best things ever..
if you want it keep it.. do what you want... there is so many people who have babies young & they all get help they need & so will you...
Good Luck
xx
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hey i just turned 15 and i think i am pregnate with a 21 yr old's kid.. i really dunno what i will do my dad will kill me if i tell him and make me have an abortion and i am sooo nt doing that.. if u want to have it like i want to have my baby, do it.. i wwill try to figure it out...i am keeping mine... email me at : WCVgurl_08@yahoo.com.. <3 Whit
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