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I want a baby if i have one it will be my first. My husband on the other hand has a son with someone else and i have been doing everything but getting on my hands an knees and pleding. I mean at times i think its me but he says yes i want one, but when he comes in he is always tired from work and he has a thousand reasons not to have one right now. I need help i need someone to let me know what to do everyone keeps telling me to leave him but he is my husband i love him but it seems like it is me..... My head is going like a hundred mile an hour. HELP ME PLEASE
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I understand what you’re going though I am going thru the same situation. I am married and my husband has two kids with two different women and now he said he doesn’t want any I on the other hand have no children. Ok there are a few things that I think might help. It is easy for anyone to say just leave him. What do you want is what matters the most. Sit down and try talking to him and explaining that you take in consideration that he works and understand but you have needs and wants also that need to be met. Then if he plainly tells you there is no way that he will have any then mention other options like IVF, adoption, etc. If there is no commitment it will continue to be a problem without solution and then it becomes a constant fight and a lot of resentment. Try counseling and if you really love him and he is the one you want children with then I suggest that you try everything possible to save your marriage and hopefully you both come to a positive solution. I hope you later come back and let us know how you’re doing. I am too looking for help.
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