Where Did The Sex Drive Go
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If any one found a run away s_x drive i need to give it back to my fiance! im going crazy! does it ever come back? she is neer the end of her first trimester and it is the last thing she thinks about. ive done so much and all i want to do is make love to her. simple. is that to much to ask? any suggestions?
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Give her a break!!! Men really DON'T understand how sick us women can get during the first trimester. Our hormones are going crazy & for the majority of women, we can barely do everyday things let alone find the energy to make you guys feel better by having s_x. If it makes you feel better most women feel much better during the second trimester (not necessarily at the beginning) & as her energy picks up & the morning sickness goes away, she is more likely to find her s_x drive again. For now all you can do is be understanding, make her feel loved without making her feel pressured to have s_x, cause trust me you'll make things worse.
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I second what E586567 says. I needed 12 hours of sleep to just get by during my first trimester and was constantly nauseous. S_x was the last thing from my mind too. You survive before her, I'm sure you'll survive now.
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My s_x drive increased with my first pregnancy and decreased during my second. I addition to feeling like c___p, the hormones will either make you want it or not. Remember, she has a human being growing inside of her and drawing off all her energy and nutrients, be patient.
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uhhh, yeah it is too much to ask. considering her body's going through hell right now due to the most important development of the baby, you owe her some rest. it could come back in the second trimester, as it does for a lot of women, but for now, get close to your hand and be nice to her. don't be so d__ned selfish!
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Hahaha Teddy, love the hand comment!!!
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Maybe it will come back in the 2nd trimester. If not, continue to be extra nice, I know it meant the world when my husband would give me compliments. I felt fat and not pregnant fat - I felt like I looked chubby and not pregnant, so keep up the compliments and be understanding. Take an interest in what's going on in the pregnancy to change her hormones so much . Read the what to expect book or something - good luck
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2nd trimester the morning sickness may start to fade but then again there is no such thing as a "normal" pregnancy.....omg these women are chewing you up and spitting you out lol hormonal woman,youll have that....espesially around here its full of them.I guess there not used to a man treating them so well so they take it out on all men *shruggs* i gots me a good one ......lol "patient" i think 3.5 months is patient before going to ppl for advice dont ya think? wow they are mean.he didnt want to be insulted he wanted some advice...but yeah like i said theyre most likely hormonal so yeah you have to lok past alot of the negitivity and that goes for your sweety as well too =)
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OMG!! these chedder and sourcream chips are the bomb right now!! And french onion dip....and i HATE onions!
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Only time will tell! Her body is changing! I am currently 7 weeks pregnant and my s_x drive is gone! Of course my boyfriend is away for 3 months so i dont have him constantly bugging me about it! ANYWAY--- Do you really need s_x? Sit down with her and watch her favorite movie, cuddle with her! Make her dinner and have a relaxing night in your pjs! You dont NEED s_x, but you may want it! There is a difference! There are so many other things that are romantic! Try making her feel special! The small things count!
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