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Okay so some of you know that I dont get along well with my mother and her bf of 4 yeras i have 4 younger siblings. my 14 yr old sister wants to come live with me for the summer becasue she cant stand it at home, i remeber being in her situationa nd running away i ended up preggerz and it wasnt good to feel the way i did, my question is do i let her move in for the summer or not? My mom says its ok and she doesnt mind and that she will even pay me a certain amount a month for like her food and stuff (but i dont believe it as I am always lendin HER money) i love my sister to death and i woud love nothin more than for her to be happy but what if after the summer is over she still wnats to stay? Im afarid if i say no she will run away and fal into my pattern?? any advice guys?
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if u dont get on with your mum why do u lend her money?
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Well why wouldn't you let her move in with you? You didn't list any downsides to it...
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Wow. Thats a tough situation. The best advice I can give to you is to sit her down and really go into detail about what both of your expectations are. Lay it all out on the table and make everything clear so that she isn't expecting more.
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yeah i guess i would say lay down the law with your sister before you decide anything. you have a baby and another on the way and don't need an oversized one throwing tantrums when it's her time to go, know what i mean?
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