I Was Raped And I Am 13 And Pregnant HELP

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cha__sidy coffey - February 7

i am 14 years old and pregnet with my second child. I dont care they its another dumb life. I know i am going to hate the thing. I hated my last stupid ugly baby. That is why I gave it up for adoption. This one I am going to do the same. I am a hooker not a mother.

 

Freaks - February 7

yeah you're really believable 'cha__sidy'

 

anonymous - February 8

to hIlary- for god sake Hilary shes 13 years old the same as me maybe shes so wound up in this she didnt think......if it had happened to you....would u remeber....he neva used a comdom....i'll get tested c if theres any of his DNA there

 

anonymous - February 8

Hi Kellyann- what Ever you do dont have an abortion...God has blessed you with a wonderful gift even if it was threw unwanted,hurful,painful...s_x....Just tell your mom that she cant make you have an abortion......your boyfriend sounds lovely...keep hold of him darling.....if he wants to stick by you then let him he is only showing you how much he loves and cares for you

 

YATES - February 8

IF THE REAL DAD TURNS UP AND WANTS CONTACT U GOT 2 LET HIM B/C A CHILD NEEDS BOTH BILOGIC PARENTS

 

Julia - February 8

ohhh bulllll...........I was a single mom for 10 years and my son does GREAT his is honor roll at school and has played baseball for 7 years and been MVP for 4 years. I worked fulltime and took care of my son....and he has cystic fibrosis which is a terminal disability. So don't tell me you ahve to have 2 parents.

 

5 - February 9

people she is 13 ...raped....what part of this tells anyone who has been preg or trying to be preg. young or old is good. And i mean preg anyway (raped or not) she needs help emotionally and also needs to deal with the hard cold facts about all things in this decision. disease included. Listen to your mother there is a reason you have one and I hope she is doing something for your emotional well being. Have you reported this to anyone if you don't he will do it to someone else. Your b/f is sweet but you two are living in la la land if you think this is going to be easy. Continue school your education is your best tool in life. And you will get somewhere in life with more education and a strong will. Make this person pay for what he did. and i hope noone continues to give you the advice that you will be doing fine later at 14 and having no job , a screaming baby and wanting to go out. and also (lets hope not) no education. It isn't easy and I won't sugar coat it for you, you need to learn to make the toughest decision of your _young life. and I would never wish that on anyone, sit down and go over all your options with your mom and b/f . write down plusses and minuses (and i bet you have more minuses) and do it in an adult way. And the most important thing here is you, you are worthy of what ever decision you make and get help because you have been through something so tramatic that it might come back to you later in your life. either decision you make, you need to put yourself first. and feel good about you before you can raise a child. Take care

 

Beth - February 14

I think that you should do what you know is right. You should have the baby and be a terrific mother. Let your boyfriend be there for you and be a father to this child. His support will help a lot. Maybe some parenting cla__ses would help.

 

a friend - February 14

Give it up for adoption, I'm SORRY your 13 and was raped!!! Why would you want to look at this little baby everyday and know what happend that day you were raped. I couldnt do it!!! If you can them more power for you and everything but girl you were raped and 13 YEARS OLD your a baby your self!!! Live your life not take care of one.

 

Tanya - February 14

I agree you should seriously consider adoption. I have looked at Cheryl's website. She is definitely a nice person. You might want to consider her.

 

priya - February 15

i had s_x wid this lad and i dont' know if im pregnant and im realli scared

 

Hi - February 15

Cha__sidy put your name in question and we'll help.

 

concerned person - February 15

Kellyanne- If you were raped please call a rpe crisis center that can help you make these decisions and give you help and guidance. You can find the nearest rape crisis center either by going on the internet at rainne.org or call 1-800-656-4673. It is a free call and the people are very helpful.

 

R - February 15

Nobody is interested in your stupid little lies 'cha__sidy' so why are you bothering. Get a life jerk.

 

latoya - February 19

girl you need to find the boy how did that to you and tell the police and whta ever you do stay in school and tell your boyfriend to please help you with the baby

 

Chloe - February 19

Dont get an ABORTION! Go to school if you must, BUT DONT GET AN ABORTION. THEY ARE DANGEROUS. YOU COULD DIE!!!!!! Instead, have the child and put it up for adoption!

 

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