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i would say if he wanted to be a part in this pregnancy by getting you pregnant he should be there for you. you're not being mean wanting him there for you, trust me. i'd say give him a few days to cool down and talk to him when you both (and you know darn good and well how us preggies can be lol) can speak civilly to each other. he might change his mind then. but why did he go running home? how old are you guys? i'm just curious and way too lazy to go back and find the other post lol.

I am 17 and he is 20! He came home because his cousin *who he is visiting* told him he owed me a big appology. His cousin said leaving me when we just found out i was pregnant, to go down there was just silly! My hormones today were so off the wall because of him.. I felt so bad for my friends! His cousin said he really shouldnt be down there.. but Jayson insisted that he could stay down there with his cousin! I love him to death and i miss him greatly! The day he went back down.. he came home dropped the groceries off.. kissed me on the forhead and said that he is off! We argue so much its not even funny! I thought he wanted this, but by the way he is acting i dont think he does........ what really made me mad though is his reason for wanting to stay down there!

i'm sorry, but i think he's too old to be running away from responsibility. probably what happened was that he was all "oh yeah let's get pregnant and i can be a star father" and when he didn't realize that it's hard on us which makes it hard on him, he wants to bail until the hardest part is over. i wouldn't put it past him to bail during delivery, but i'm not trying to make you feel bad. i wish i could help, but as complicated as men say women are, they are a complete mystery to me. sometimes the true worth of a man comes out once he becomes a father (or at least gets a woman pregnant). but! ((((hugs)))) for you anyway! it's all i can do cuz i can't bonk your man on the head =P

the reason he wants to stay longer is because "he wants his man card back!" thats what he told me! I am like "you act like i am saying you cant go at all!" i am willing to take care of this baby, because thats what a mom does.. i wish he would be the same way! He wanted to so badly to get pregnant, once it finally happened, bam he doesnt seem to want this! I want him home in November.. he is missing so much! I know i am only 8 weeks but so much goes on! the baby is like a coffee bean lol I am the only one excited well me and the god mommy lol.. I think he needs a bonk on the head :) or something! But thank you!!!

oh...mygawd. yeah he's scared. his man card? then he shouldn't have been man enough to make a baby if he wasn't ready. i can't stand that excuse from men. it's like the excuse guys use when they cheat "i'm a man and men have needs". it is a big deal to be pregnant, especially the first time and yeah a lot goes on in the first trimester, so if you have questions and he flakes out, just feel free to ask. i swear i went through it all almost during my first trimester lol. and to be perfectly honest, he needs a swift kick to the t______es, but we'll go with a bonk on the head ^^ i'll be excited for you too because i remember when i was where you are and i was completely in shock lol. oh and there's a site where you can look and see the development of your baby called babycenter.com and you can choose the week you're on and see how your little beanie's doing.

i'm 30 weeks, so mine's pretty much "so you're fat and hot and waddle a lot and you feel the baby's kicks like shots to the gut with a cannon. only 10 weeks to go if you're lucky" lol. but every pain (including the ones in the b___t) are worth it.

thats another thing that scares me though... i dont know if he is cheating on me or if i am just thinking crazy.i am completely loving being pregnant! I am not really hormonal.. only when he makes me mad! i dont get morning sickness really bad so its going good so far. The one thing i can not stand is the smell of hairspray! ugh that just makes me sick! My craving right now is apples carmalized.. oh my gosh lol i cant eat alot of that though.. it will get me sick haha If i need anything all i have to say to the god mommy is "can you do me a favor?' and she is in her car on her way here... she never gives me time to finish and tell her the favor lol but i guess thats good! i will have to check out that site!! thank you!

I told you already what i think i know but I really agree with Teddy in the fact that you should wait a few days and then talk to him about it. And I can tell you are happy being pregnant cuz when we talk you get me all excited and happy for you :) *hugs* I hope it all gets better for you chika!

He called me this morning. I told him that he is missing so much and I dont want him to miss the whole thing! He told me he isnt missing anything, he hears it from me everyday! There honestly is no need for him to be mean like that to me! He was like "i am staying til January, then when i get home, we can do the nursery..." im like "you will be doing the nursery!!!" So apparently he is now staying til January! His cousin called me and told me that.. he thinks jayson is scared of losing himself! im like "yeah but he wanted this so bad, now that its hear.. he doesnt?" i dont know.. i just cant worry about it..because the baby feels what i do so!

im sorry your going through this, you will find that you will probably wanna do your nursery before Jan, im only 24 weeks im ready to paint, he cnat miss out on more than half the pregnancy and then expect to come back and make choices on the nursery etc.. even though your telling him daily whats going on he is not getting that bond with his child, to hear the baby kicked today is great but when you actually get to feel it its 100000 times more amazing, hopefulyl he will come to his senses and come home in november when you want him to, but you know what maybe by then his priorites will be alot more clear. you may not even want him to come back! i can understand being scared but he's running from what hes afraid of and a father cant do that, its not like you can run if you get scared by something in your pregnancy, best of luck to you and good luck with your pregnancy

in your post to amanda you say your daughter had colic.. is this your first pregnancy or ... sry just a little confused lol

With him its my first time being pregnant! When i was 15 i was raped and became pregnant with my daughter! So she would be 2! if that helps explain things!

If i came off like this is my first pregnancy ever.. im really sorry!!! I didnt mean for any of my posts to sound like that!!!

sorry i didnt mean to pry, just confused the hell outta me, yes that clears things up, :P

I thought it was your first pregnancy :D my son will be 20 months on the 19 and im having my second im 16 :P lol

Dont be sorry its perfectly ok! I didnt mean for it to sound like it was my first pregnancy